Thanks everyone for your input. I will wait my 5 years period to file for citizenship. Indeed, we purchased our first home before we even got married and I am the one who put down the down payment for the house. I still have the checks when I was packing up my stuff and ready to move on. We also have our car with both of our names, he is under my medical insurance. We also have joint bank accounts, home insurance, credit cards. Some of these I can find and some I can't. Because I really did not expect we will get divorced in our life time.
What kind of questions I will expect the IO to ask if they really suspect? I get nervous very easily even for a job interview.
Reading this forum is helping me a lot. I did not know traffic violation is important to naturalization. I do remember I had one before in my 11 years driving record. If I can't recall when, what should I do?
Thanks a lot for your advices.
I think the collective wisdom of the forum is that because there is a chance that you will NOT be asked about your marriage then being proactive is ill-advised. If that is the case, then I concede the point about being proactive. But I simply cannot believe -- based on what you have said -- that you will not be questioned closely about the marriage because your situation looks like a classic sham marriage.
I suppose also in your situation, you don't care how fast your N400 is processed; you are probably more worried about losing your GC so being proactive simply to speed things up is probably not that important for you.
Also, as John Cash said in his post, it is definitely true that USCIS can ask for more evidence after you send your application but before the interview through an RFE, so there is no need to be proactive for any reason. However, I don't know how being proactive will hurt. Everyone is sort of freaked out by it and says don't do give them anything unless they ask but no-one explains or gives examples showing why exactly it is a bad thing.
I will say this though: I was proactive in my own application about one issue and my IO appreciated it. She was like, "you are very thorough" etc... and I had no problems. But then again, everyone's situation is different, and your IO may not be as accomodating as mine was. So you should probably still consult a practicing immigration attorney in your district. Usually, the initial consultation is free and you only pay them if they do the application for you.
I wouldn't worry about getting nervous at the interview. People get nervous for all sorts of reasons. If the documents you have tend to prove you were married then it will not be a problem. For the documents you cannot find, call the banks, the credit card companies, the insurance companies etc. and have them send you the records. They may charge you a fee but they defeintely have the records preserved.
Good Luck!
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