How to proceed with divorce

NO my dear, I am a born American, married to a Pakistani but US Consulate in Islamabad refused the case saying that age difference, I am 46 and he is 30 now he wants me to join him in Pakistan which I cant do so we have decided that its better to split instead of keeping this marriage alive though it is hard and painful decission but we have decided, so please tell me what should I do to finish all this process.

Does this have to do with green cards?
 
wasn't he in the states when you got married? If he can come to USA then it will be easier to just adjust his status and he will get his GC. Why did he move back to Pakistan?
 
Can American divorce courts preside over a marriage done in Pakistan, given that one of the parties is not in the US? I think any good divorce laywer should be able to answer that question for you. If I were you I'd also consult with the Pakistan embassy in Washington DC. So get a lawyer.
 
Why don't you hire an immigration lawyer and fight the decision of the consulate? If the marriage is bonafide, he will get his green card.

NO my dear, I am a born American, married to a Pakistani but US Consulate in Islamabad refused the case saying that age difference, I am 46 and he is 30 now he wants me to join him in Pakistan which I cant do so we have decided that its better to split instead of keeping this marriage alive though it is hard and painful decission but we have decided, so please tell me what should I do to finish all this process.
 
Yes, I told him to fight with court, but he is not interested and wants me to join him otherwise wants to quit from this marriage, so if you think any good lawyer plz let me know

Why don't you hire an immigration lawyer and fight the decision of the consulate? If the marriage is bonafide, he will get his green card.
 
Yes, I told him to fight with court, but he is not interested and wants me to join him otherwise wants to quit from this marriage, so if you think any good lawyer plz let me know

Contact your local bar association for a family law attorney who can handle an uncontested divorce. This should be straightforward.
 
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