Thanks Tabaliya for your imput. I was also thinking of that but figured that would be a longer process. So how long is the wait for a J1 waiver? What the difference between filling no objection & hardship? Also does my boyfriend have to return back to India for those two years or can he go to another country?
J-1 waiver process (assuming no objection):
There are multiple steps:
1. You send four NORI forms to Indian Consulate for attestation three of which come back to you (2 weeks)
2. You send NORI forms to three different offices in India to get the No Obligation to Return to India endorsed by them. The three offices willeither send you or the Consulate directly the three NORI certificates. (2-4 months - sometimes longer, depending upon your luck)
3. You open a case number at the DOS (Dept of State) website for the J-1 waiver (anytime during the process but preferably after step 2 above). Supply them all the documents (DS2019, DS3035 and any other supporting docs as required)
5. You send the three NORI certs (originals - in our case we got all three paper copies) to the Indian Consulate along with passport
6. Indian Consulate issues a No Objection Certificate (NOC) and forwards to the Indian Embassy in Washington DC to issue the final NOC (2 weeks)
7. The Indian Embassy issues the final NOC to the Dept of State (DOS) which then completes your application process at the DOS. (2 weeks)
8. DOS issues the J-1 waiver recommendation to the USCIS (2 weeks to several months)
At this stage you may apply for AOS or H1B etc.
9. USCIS issues the final J-1 waiver (2 weeks to one year)
So as you can see it is a long process, even with the No Objection route. The most optimistic scenario, from start to finish, is six months.
If applying under hardship or persecution, it might take longer than six months. In any case, this is a necessary step to immigration if one dos have the 2 Yr HRR on their DS2019 or visa stamp in the passport.
As for the 2 years, this has to be time spent in INDIA, not anywhere else.
I'm not familiar with the hardship cases - I think you have to go well beyond the seperation of husband and wife situation. In our case it was a simple "No Objection" case since she had not received any US or Indian Government funding and it was just a matter of the Indian Govt issuing the NOC. We didn't also write any detailed Statement of Reason which some people seem to do a lot (by reading on this forum). All we wrote for the Statement of Reason was "No Obection from the Govt of Home Country" or something like that. We did hire an attorney (one of the best in our area) to do the paperwork for us but did our own research on the side to learn all the issues.
Hope this helps.
AP