Life is full of choices, and every choice you make has advantages and disadvantages. You need to determine wether losing US permanent residency is outweighed by being close to your parents and relatives. There are no free lunches in life.
Great comment!!! You can not eat the cake and have it at the same time.
Borufkaberry, more or less, most of the immigrants had to make the same type of "hard" choice (if not for the parent, then for job, or friends, or love or property or....). I do not beleive that you can sit on the two chairs, because (1) you will do the damage to one of the chairs sooner or later; (2) it will cost you double more $$$ and time and efforts and nerves and stress and (3) it is not the natural state.
You are maybe not looking to have super-tourist visa, but certainly looking for the super-life-insurance in the form of GC. You are putting too much faith in that. GC means nothing....not a success....not a job....nothing. I would always trust myself as an insurance policy over GC or anything else....For example...if you are great expert, you will always be able to get new visa and immigrate where you want. Not only in US.
Do not work life around immigration, but immigration around life!
Life is full of opportunities....and solutions....many folks bring their parents with them to US (petition for their green card once they rcv citizenship)....many do not immigrate to US and have a great lives....many folks are happy with an occasional parent's visits to US (on tourist visa)....some have relatives help their parents in home country...some do travel to home country more often....etc. Some parents love US, some can not manage it all- they do not speak the language, have a hard time with its culture etc....
You are master of your life and while you should respect your parents and help them....but at the end, this is about you and your choices and your direction.
I would put yourself first, then other people and then the immigration.
equate said:
Get the reentry permit, and that will give you 2 years to decide whether you want to stay in Europe or come back to the states.
That just means if you do make up your mind to apply for citizenship someday, you'll have to wait 7 years.
I agree. But, this is only the temporary fix. You still need to make a decision. One or two years will not solve a thing. I would argue that your parents will just get more older than they are now...and you will be in the same spot with probably more difficult task at hand.
If I were you, I would deal with the choice right now and plan accordingly. For example (not recommending or saying that you do this - you will know what is best for you).....if you want to sponsor your parents to be with you in US one day...if I were you...I would work towards citizenship and planning to have them move with me in next 5-10 years. (this is just a pure example) However if you wait with re-entry permits, you will loose precious time for citizenship and will have to move their sponsorship further in the future, say over 10 years.
Good luck!
P.S.: I'm not a lawyer or an immigration expert. I'm just an ordinary guy. You are soley responsible for your actions.