OMG Fedup!!! I'm SO sorry!!!!
Why are some people like that? It's as if some of the officers know there's nothing you can do and they abuse their power. You are right, that comment about him being white and you being black was totally out of line. Under different circumstances that can be considered even discrimination. Of course everyone is going to be different.
Ugh...I can't even think of what else you can get to proof your relationship. Here are some ideas, you might have already had these:
- letter from his parents stating that they approve the relationship or something like that.
- letter from employer where they have your address, that way you can show both of your employers have the same address in file.
- find as many pictures of both of you as you can.
- have him add you as a beneficiary of his life policy
If I think of anything else, I'll post it.
Why are some people like that? It's as if some of the officers know there's nothing you can do and they abuse their power. You are right, that comment about him being white and you being black was totally out of line. Under different circumstances that can be considered even discrimination. Of course everyone is going to be different.
Ugh...I can't even think of what else you can get to proof your relationship. Here are some ideas, you might have already had these:
- letter from his parents stating that they approve the relationship or something like that.
- letter from employer where they have your address, that way you can show both of your employers have the same address in file.
- find as many pictures of both of you as you can.
- have him add you as a beneficiary of his life policy
If I think of anything else, I'll post it.