I know that, but my husband and me are not seperated yet, he keeps on tellin me that they dont have deep relationship, its just that he only impregnated the girl and thats it. He wants 2 comeback but imhaving double thought bec the girl is just around the corner and if me and my husband will live together i dont want the girl to stay here, i dont want her to be just around, you know what i mean? i want her to disappear in our life, i dont want her to exists in these country. The reason why my husband still stays on his mom is bec he wants his mom to move first so he can assure that his mom is in a safe place before leaving her. But then, the girl doesnt have any relatives here its just that my husbands mom is just the only one taking care of her eversince she came here. I know its very complicated, i keep on asking my husband why is the girl keeps on living with his mom? why is that she doesnt want to try to live by herself with the baby? And that freaking thing is very annoying on my part bec. I hate it, it is very unfair to me. And I dont give a damn care if they'll gonna hate for what I will be doing to them.