@EURO2014 - Not sure if you recall but in July I believe I almost gave up on this as I did realize that waver would not be done in time. You advised me to try a lawyer and I was lucky to find good and inexpensive one (US based) who knew how to poke the consulate to explain them that waver should not apply to me. So they reversed their decision last minute and told my lawyer that I can walk in with passport and new medical by the end of last week (Sept 30th) In the end lucky because getting medical done in 2 days is not easy but I owe you for pointing me into trying a lawyer. Was worth it. Thanks very much. Wife will not be an issue as she is Canadian so it is not like we will be separated.
@Britsimon @SusieQQQ @Sm1smom and others, thank you all for me being able to get advise from all of you.