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How old? How tall?I would have said that was my son you met if you hadn't stated this kid was 13 and he's under 6 feet
How old? How tall?I would have said that was my son you met if you hadn't stated this kid was 13 and he's under 6 feet
Hahaaaa...long way behind you bro! You guys are trailblazing for some of us. Holding on to hope though that in due time i too will announce some good news. For you going ahead of us we pray for your good progress.Thanks @ coronahope. How are your preparations going?
May your hopes come yo fruition in due time.Hahaaaa...long way behind you bro! You guys are trailblazing for some of us. Holding on to hope though that in due time i too will announce some good news. For you going ahead of us we pray for your good progress.
How old? How tall?
Ha ha ha.18 in a couple of weeks, 6ft 4in tall. And in anticipation of your next question, he's my youngest kid.
I agree. The choice of where to live is not an easy one to make. For instance I have been at it since I decided to pursue the dv and I think there was thread which went quiet.
The factors outlined by B. simon are what I aspire for. With a family of three young kids, the move needs some thinking and meticulous planning.
My host is a family man and we have discussed this for a very long time.
He lives in Burtonsville and he says it is a good place for a family so we start there but nobody knows where we will end up putting our roots down.
I anticipate that it will be near a good agricultural college/research institution so the west coast comes up, good elementary and middle schools and most important, very low crime- this made us forfeit a good job offer in piedmont area. Certainly not in the north due to climate. This is what we are aspiring for. This is perhaps what B.Simon's third paragraph is all about but it is easier said than done! We can only try.
[/QUOTE]Yep I saw that - and was surprised that people applauded the actions as if smacking the kid around the head a few times would make the boy think "oh yeah, violence is bad". Sheesh.
Anyway, you mentioned living in Baltimore and, given the attention Baltimore has had that would seem like an odd choice to make. However, Burtonsville is not Baltimore - and it is well placed between Baltimore and Washington. So that would be a smart choice.
In general, I think people don't pay enough attention to where they are planning to live. New immigrants have no roots in the USA, they can choose to live anywhere, so it amazes me when people choose areas that have problems. Cheap doesn't always mean bad, but doesn't mean good either. Go where the work is, where economic conditions, social conditions and leisure conditions are going to add up to a nice life.
I met an African American family last night who had with them their 13 year old son. The son is almost 6 foot tall already, good looking, well spoken, totally able to communicate with a number of very wealthy individuals in a social setting. He wasn't out of place at all. He's doing well in school, I am sure he will play basketball in University and has an incredible future before him. Much of that is simply because his parents have been able to make sure he lives in a nice area, with good schools and so on, and they have done an awesome job in raising a fine young man. There is a lot of talk about racial disadvantage in America, but this family proves that the color of your skin does not have to be a factor if you don't let it. The choices you make on where to live will be choices you make for the life ahead of your kids. It is worth aspiring to get into the best environment possible.
[/QUOTE]Yep I saw that - and was surprised that people applauded the actions as if smacking the kid around the head a few times would make the boy think "oh yeah, violence is bad". Sheesh.
Anyway, you mentioned living in Baltimore and, given the attention Baltimore has had that would seem like an odd choice to make. However, Burtonsville is not Baltimore - and it is well placed between Baltimore and Washington. So that would be a smart choice.
In general, I think people don't pay enough attention to where they are planning to live. New immigrants have no roots in the USA, they can choose to live anywhere, so it amazes me when people choose areas that have problems. Cheap doesn't always mean bad, but doesn't mean good either. Go where the work is, where economic conditions, social conditions and leisure conditions are going to add up to a nice life.
I met an African American family last night who had with them their 13 year old son. The son is almost 6 foot tall already, good looking, well spoken, totally able to communicate with a number of very wealthy individuals in a social setting. He wasn't out of place at all. He's doing well in school, I am sure he will play basketball in University and has an incredible future before him. Much of that is simply because his parents have been able to make sure he lives in a nice area, with good schools and so on, and they have done an awesome job in raising a fine young man. There is a lot of talk about racial disadvantage in America, but this family proves that the color of your skin does not have to be a factor if you don't let it. The choices you make on where to live will be choices you make for the life ahead of your kids. It is worth aspiring to get into the best environment possible.
Your comment made me review the spanking incident and the interview given by the mother and the kid later, and also look up the history of Baltimore and it is lamentable, reminds me of your guy in attachment 274, waiting for his chance.
I still stand convinced that it can be very disturbing to see your kid in a mob that is destroying what has taken lifetime efforts to establish, places where maybe his kins go every morning to earn a living. That is not the way to make your voice hard, never mind how you bad to be heard. The mother said that that is not how the kid was brought up, and that she was only trying to take off his mask so that he could just do it as himself! The kid said that he regretted his misadventure. The police boss said that he wished he had more parents like her.
And above all, the leadership of the town took this tragic case very seriously and said that they would pursue justice.
All said, I am not immigrating to that side of Baltimore, or any other place where dawn never comes.
Amen hope to see yu here later this year,be blessed tooBanangeh, may God prosper you some more.
Hi family, I was recently diagnosed with hypertension. In addition, my aorta was found to be unfolding, a condition called aneurysm dilatation. Am currently on medication for hypertension.
Qn. Could this lead to visa denial? Kindly advise. I intend to carry my x ray and ct scan reports to IOM.