DV-2011 Winners Report Here!
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Hello Everyone,
Diafa, thanks for ur response. Well, it has not been easy for me lately. I was still trying to see if i can get my fiancee back. I really dont know wat her mother must av told her, but she refuse talking to me, refuse seeing me, and never give me audience even when i pleaded to see her. It so painfull, cos i felt bad and hearbroken. I hardly eat, hardly concentrate and i find it difficult to be focus. I'm loosing my mind i guess. I love this lady so much that i never see the importance of keeping a female friend around me aside her. I called her on phone trying to win her love back, but she keeps turning down my calls. No doubt, this lady had put me into so much pain and agony cos my heart keeps skipping anytime i think about her. I keep on crying almost everyday, cos i just dont know where to start from. I try as much to please her in everything i do, even to the detriment of my happiness. The more i try, the more she confidently dealt with my emotions. I had a dream that i won the lottery, but while i was going for the interview, i notice she wasn't with me and the consular officer, a lady was asking me about my wife. I was crying, at the same time begging the consular officer to give me time to go and look for her. The lady says i shuld 4get about her and to stop crying, or else she will return back the documents i gave to her. It was when i woke up, that i realise i was in a dream. It was so real and true. I just dont know how i can go on without her around me. I love her so much and i'm really missing her presence around. Love is blind they say, and for sure i av gone blind already. Its not my fault to be in love with someone is it?
Diafa, thanks for ur response. Well, it has not been easy for me lately. I was still trying to see if i can get my fiancee back. I really dont know wat her mother must av told her, but she refuse talking to me, refuse seeing me, and never give me audience even when i pleaded to see her. It so painfull, cos i felt bad and hearbroken. I hardly eat, hardly concentrate and i find it difficult to be focus. I'm loosing my mind i guess. I love this lady so much that i never see the importance of keeping a female friend around me aside her. I called her on phone trying to win her love back, but she keeps turning down my calls. No doubt, this lady had put me into so much pain and agony cos my heart keeps skipping anytime i think about her. I keep on crying almost everyday, cos i just dont know where to start from. I try as much to please her in everything i do, even to the detriment of my happiness. The more i try, the more she confidently dealt with my emotions. I had a dream that i won the lottery, but while i was going for the interview, i notice she wasn't with me and the consular officer, a lady was asking me about my wife. I was crying, at the same time begging the consular officer to give me time to go and look for her. The lady says i shuld 4get about her and to stop crying, or else she will return back the documents i gave to her. It was when i woke up, that i realise i was in a dream. It was so real and true. I just dont know how i can go on without her around me. I love her so much and i'm really missing her presence around. Love is blind they say, and for sure i av gone blind already. Its not my fault to be in love with someone is it?
Diafa, I really dont know the significance of that dream, and i had this dream before we started having this problem. I'm so happy about the dream, but not too happy for my fiancee was not there with me. Will someone tell me wat is going on before i loose my mind? its not fair u know. Why do i av to have a dream and the part which i dont like about that dream wants to come to reality? Wat do i do now? I need ur urgent help house.
ovicity my friend..much much hugs. I know how you are feeling but let me promise you one thing..this too shall pass. Ovicity I am sure I am older than you so thake my advice..never love anyone more than you love yourself. She does not deserve you, she cheated on you and now even when you are willing to forgive her and move on she's treating you like dirt. Ovicity cry all you want but one day soon you'll stop crying and you'll be ready to move on with your life. I'm soo sorry you are going through this but I think it's one of the passages in life..you have to kiss alot of frogs before you get your prince(in your case princess). Try and concentrate on other things, I'mm trying very very hard to get involved in a lot of things so I don't have to think about the DV results coming soon..I'm becoming very nervouse even as I tell myself my pics didn't make it this year..but life goes on and when we lose a day it won't come back. Cheer up my friend, this to shall pass.
PS. I don't know the meaning of your dream but I want to think it's telling you great things await you without her by your side....
How is everyone else doing? In my mind I've written off this year but I'm secretly hoping for a surprise...I prefer surprises over disappointment anyday..lol.
Friends in the US start stalking your postbox, I can't wait to hear your good news.
PS. I don't know the meaning of your dream but I want to think it's telling you great things await you without her by your side....
How is everyone else doing? In my mind I've written off this year but I'm secretly hoping for a surprise...I prefer surprises over disappointment anyday..lol.
Friends in the US start stalking your postbox, I can't wait to hear your good news.
Ovicity : u should stop everyhing with her ...really coz it s just more and more painful for u to see her back and she doesnt care ....U should sit with her and know what she has in her mind , what she really want and I m sure she should says thing that will makes u realize, that u dont have anything in common and things that in u r mind will say to u : I should STOP now before kids or marriage stuff get involve, u r lucky to do not have any kind of engagement with her so let Urself free see other girls, date, hang out with ur friends, go out, party, !!!!
I ve been in a bad relationship for 3 years and trust me it was a relief the day a stopped everything....Im single now for a longtime and i really appreciate this freedom not having to think about someone what he thinks about this or this...and always be mad on everything...its not everyday perfect but i have my friends family and sometimes its just not the times to be with someone...and one thing u have to know and trust me it works!!!
Never be after a girl, the more u r after her the more she will makes u run after her ....
Try this : dont call her during a week or 2, avoid her completely and ull see ....
Try and tell me Ovicity !!!
Btw u r Lucky to dream about the DV lol.......Im sure it s a good sign!!!!
Let s be happy this last week ....lol the last one of waiting LOl
And im sure once u ll win u ll forget about her LOl it will take u sooo much time to think about the US...
WISH UR DREAM COME TRUE!!!!
@ProudT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH Im the same hate this month....I cant wait to get rid of March!!
One week before we really know....and the first selection was made I thnk this week ....
Cant stop praying!!!
Wish and pray for everyone!!!!
I ve been in a bad relationship for 3 years and trust me it was a relief the day a stopped everything....Im single now for a longtime and i really appreciate this freedom not having to think about someone what he thinks about this or this...and always be mad on everything...its not everyday perfect but i have my friends family and sometimes its just not the times to be with someone...and one thing u have to know and trust me it works!!!
Never be after a girl, the more u r after her the more she will makes u run after her ....
Try this : dont call her during a week or 2, avoid her completely and ull see ....
Try and tell me Ovicity !!!
Btw u r Lucky to dream about the DV lol.......Im sure it s a good sign!!!!
Let s be happy this last week ....lol the last one of waiting LOl
And im sure once u ll win u ll forget about her LOl it will take u sooo much time to think about the US...
WISH UR DREAM COME TRUE!!!!
@ProudT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH Im the same hate this month....I cant wait to get rid of March!!
One week before we really know....and the first selection was made I thnk this week ....
Cant stop praying!!!
Wish and pray for everyone!!!!
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No doubts why it is called March Madness. I am sure things will heat up even more when the 1st NL is reported here or we hear about it some other ways. Every day could be pay day until our hope fade away 
. I heard last year there were like 13 millions who applied. could be even more this year and when you think that only 50 thousands lucky ones will get the "Holly Grey Card" that makes it really tight but then who knows. I guess that's what makes it so thrilling and exciting.....Let's cross our fingers and believe in our American dream......
. I heard last year there were like 13 millions who applied. could be even more this year and when you think that only 50 thousands lucky ones will get the "Holly Grey Card" that makes it really tight but then who knows. I guess that's what makes it so thrilling and exciting.....Let's cross our fingers and believe in our American dream......Weekends sucksss TOO!!!!!! Coz no mail before monday....!!! waiting is getting on my nerves..........lol Even if i know europeenne will be the last on receiving the NL....it always was like this sooo....I just wanna be happy for someone, who will receive the 1st NL!!!!!
WAITING / DREAMING / HOPING / WISHING .......................and ....................PRAYING, PRAYING, .........and PRAYING!!!!!
WAITING / DREAMING / HOPING / WISHING .......................and ....................PRAYING, PRAYING, .........and PRAYING!!!!!
By the time the 1st NL received is announced we have to talk about something and keep this thread alive. Otherwise nobody will dare to come and give us the good news everybody's been waiting for. On the other hand nobody force you to read what others have to say or want to share with us. And by the way you forgot to mention rabbi and monk
Oh come on. Let everyone dream and rant a little bit. Trying your luck in a different country is not only serious business. We should try and make it as fun as possible, enough seriousness in this whole process as it is!
We will start a new thread, where we only put down the case# and date... So don't stress too much...
hello every1,pls pls,let's leave d negativities off this wonderful & exciting forum.every1 has a right to his or her opinion. @ obama...i somehow agree with u,there are some details best left elsewhere,yet we should sometime carry others along. i believe by next weekend d tempo wud increase.looking forward to testimonies,most especially from diafa & usa1.i wish everbody a beautiful wkend.
@Obama : ..................mhhhhhhh................ANYWAY.......
Thanks for the advice .....We r fine ..thanxxx LOL
Just let people say whatever they wanna say, ITS A FREE THREAD...DONT THINK ANYTHING HERE IS MEAN OR OFFEND ANYONE....
HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND EVERYONE!!!
Cheeerrrsss
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Hello Everyone,
Pls ladies and gentlemen, this is a forum set up to assist one another with prayers and hope for success and achievement. Whether DV or any other thing, the person's success is wat we want to know. If we don't av freedom of speech or freedom of expression, then i dont know which America u guyz are planning to go. (A problem shared is half sovled) they say. U are not forced or oblidged to read anybody's post neither are u forced to reply to the post. Ur contribution to the persons post may go along way to solve the the persons problem and also some of our friends who av thesame problem but find it very hard to share it, who knows, may end up gaining and learning something from the post.
Diafa, Kario, Sonibago, had all played a wonderfull role to issues like this. So Obama, do control ur speech while u are dealing with the public. U dont know whom u might be hurting.
Cheers everyone and do av a wonderfull weekend!
Pls ladies and gentlemen, this is a forum set up to assist one another with prayers and hope for success and achievement. Whether DV or any other thing, the person's success is wat we want to know. If we don't av freedom of speech or freedom of expression, then i dont know which America u guyz are planning to go. (A problem shared is half sovled) they say. U are not forced or oblidged to read anybody's post neither are u forced to reply to the post. Ur contribution to the persons post may go along way to solve the the persons problem and also some of our friends who av thesame problem but find it very hard to share it, who knows, may end up gaining and learning something from the post.
Diafa, Kario, Sonibago, had all played a wonderfull role to issues like this. So Obama, do control ur speech while u are dealing with the public. U dont know whom u might be hurting.
Cheers everyone and do av a wonderfull weekend!
cruiserbox
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i was i winer 2009 but i refuse to get my visa, so am praying dat i will be another winner 2011.....
Hi Cruiser, If you don't mind me asking, why were your visa denied?
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