I don't agree with Werdel.....I understand how badly you want the NL, like all people but it comes across like immature to start a thread every day about the same thing.
You are so desperate and that is never a healthy thing. I live in the USA for almost 10 yrs and things aren't always easy, specially with a visa, but you have to grow up and see things for what they are.
Are you even sure that if you get the NL you are able to come here and start your life. To get a job, have the money to do so and do you think that life in the USA is what you think right now it is...
The first 2-3 yrs I thought I really knew what living over here was and it was just great, nothing wrong and still I love to live here, but it isn't exactly what we thought the first 2 yrs...we started to buy a home and bought more homes and than you start to see the difference between Europe and the USA and see the good and bad things. I still want to stay here but I have seen people from Germany, France, etc...who decided to go back after 10 yrs. They also lived the first yrs without really realizing how it is over here, until you deal with a lot of financial things. We made money over here we never could have made in Europe, but some times I think why they called it the Wild West and it has not always to do with guns...it is over here every one for them self and no security like in Europe, so you better realize that nobody feels sorry for you if you fail...good for you if you make it, but it isn't a handout over here....just a reality check.