Every site I read it saids in order to obtain a K-1 Fiancee visa you must both meet in person. I understand if you have never seen her before but with the internet we have been seeing each other for over a year on web cam. I also met her family and parents on the web cam too. We have both sent each other many pictures of each other and where and how we live, many cards through the mail and emails, also I call her every day and night. I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. If we don't meet in person does this mean she won't be issued a K-1 Fiancee visa? There is nothing more I would rather do than to go to the Philippines and hold her in my arms. With the US emcominy being as bad as it is at the moment, a job right now is very important to have. I'm afraid that if I try to take time off of work to visit, I may not have a job when I return home. This means losing my house and all our plans together. They say there are some cases where you don't have to meet if it causes " Extreme Hardship" in doing so. Has anyone heard of this? Does anyone know what the law means as "Extreme Hardship"? Any information would be very helpful, thank you....