divorce on conditional GC

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jaipas25ans

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I am so unhappy, husband moving out of state, didn't tell me the truth probably telling me lies and lies,
then, it took toll in my life, my life here, in school, I slept in the car for three days just to be with him, he didn't like the idea that I am with him either, telling me that I'm a burden that I'm with him because he pays for money, whiltst the porn dvds I've found him buying was 45 dollars a piece, he likes pornography so much and is very very smart about hiding his stuff.
He has been lying to me, if I don't found it myself he won't tell me anything.
He moved to california with his "brother" since I've no means of finding out the truth.
Then found out that when I was calling him that he lied about me, said "why are you always calling me?"
when he was on line all days talking to his woman, of course I don't know his many aliases on line.
I got also stokes interview which is real hard...
I feel like I don't know what to do, this really killing me, so bad, and I need to get out of this mess. I don't know what to do...
any advice?
 
jaipas25ans said:
whiltst the porn dvds I've found him buying was 45 dollars a piece, he likes pornography so much and is very very smart about hiding his stuff.
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Shoot, does he not know about YouTube and Google Video?

Anyway, I'm assuming you're seeking advice on how a divorce affects your immigration status. You'll have to prove that you entered the marriage in good faith. You can remove the condition as soon as your divorce is finalized (and you have to make sure this happens before your GC expires!).

Well, I hope he turns out to be a better person and you'll reconcile. Good luck!
 
First, you don't have to tell us the must intimate aspect of your relationship, we try to be objective, there is always all kind of factors and stories in both sides and is not our business. Specify and be clear in what you need from this forum. e.g. "I am thinking to divorce my husband due to factors like lies and others from his side and there is no reconciliation, what I can do to mantain my GC status?"

Second, is in you to DECIDE if you want to divorce him or not and from there we can help.

If you are asking about, what happened with your conditional CG if you divorce, then there is a solution for that, no guarantees as always...but it's possible and there have been plenty of sucessful stories around.

First, you have to BE divorced, with the divorce decree on hand and then file ASAP your I-751 alone with the waiver that your marriage ended in divorce. By the way be aware that you should gather ALL information about your bonafide marriage, like bills in commong, leases, mortgages, loans, credit cards, bank accounts, pictures, affidavits, tax returns jointly, etc that demostrate that you indeed had a life together.

Since he moved out, you should start thinking what you want to do. If you want to stay in this country you must file the removal of your conditions before your GC expires...actually on waiver cases you can file it at whatever time once the divorce is final but BEFORE the GC expires to avoid get into an immigration judge and all that mess.

Good luck
 
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