Assylee,
Thanks for your insights, they are greatly appreciated.
I'll answer you questions, so that you better understand our case:
Yes, she is also in danger of returning back to country. It is stated in the asylum application too.
I don't want her to be prinicple asylee. What I had in mind was, as soon as she entered US and her asylum case started, I would schedule an appointment with infopass and make things in line as I have an A Number for her from my I730 receipt, they should be able to cooperate.
Another question is that if she claims asylum at the port of entry will they bar her from meeting me? This process is kind of vague to me. As far as illegality & legality is concerned, I think asylum itself is quite flexible when it comes to that. I was in F1 status when I applied for asylum & i had passed 2 years dead line too, but our case was so genuine, it got approved in 2 months.
Please shed some light!