Suzy977 said:
The above, like I said, is my personal experience, and is not "based upon the information that I know/witnessed thru various sources including Las Vegas govt. site."
But like my signature says: "If you don't like or don't trust my personal opinion, feel free to ignore it"
This site (or any other immigration site for that matter) is NOT about gaining trust; rather this is about sharing and learning. That means, I'm NOT here to gain trust in/from someone's personal opinion, so whatever someone's signature is saying means nothing to ME. Neither I'm here to mislead anyone, nor to keep an upper hand. And obviously, it is not about being Dr. Phill (someone's pet word).
I provide information/opinion to help people based upon what I KNOW and what is written in books about a specific issue/law. I didn't marry in Vegas (nor I went thru immigration journey), so obviously I don't have first hand "PERSONAL EXPERIENCE" as you and other have in these regards. However, what I hold on to is-the knowledge and information that I got on laws from reading books on these subjects, info from different sites (including govt. sites) and dealing/handling with thousands of people along the way.
Moreover, I can only speak for myself than for you or anyone else. Thus, I cannot speak for what you "personally" experienced or what other immigration attorneys tell to other people on different subjects. Nor I can attest any of the "personal" experience that you have. But what I can attest is- what is written inside the books and on sites, including what other people (many of them) have told me based upon their own experiences.
I am not saying that you are untruthful about your personal experience on this subject to justify yourself, but do you expect someone (not me) to rely upon your info when all sources are saying otherwise? And, how to verify your info when all the given sites (including the govt. one) are saying otherwise? At least, I've backed up my statements with 12 websites on this subject matter, which included govt. site as well.
I'm not saying that you are misleading people on this matter, nor I'm saying that you didn't have "personal experience"; rather I strongly believe that it would be highly beneficial to everyone if you could provide some kind of verifiable info on your "personal experience" such as the name of the person who performed marriage ceremony for you, or the name of the chapel or something like that. I believe this is very important especially when both of us have commented here to help people on this subject than trying to have upperhand unless you had/have other motive in making a statement of correcting me without any back-up evidence.
If I were you, I would have checked that info out first from all the verifiable sources out there before correcting someone else, which I did when I made a statement of correcting you. And if those info were to be different than my personal experience then I would have just explained/talked about my personal experience than talking about correcting someone else. Correction is made when someone is wrong and not when someone is right based upon all the info out there. Your personal experience should not have anything to do with correcting me for my info because my info comes from what laws say on that particular info in Nevada which is out there for anyone to read/check that out. I mean, you are free to post or talk about your personal experience like people do here all the times, but you cannot talk about correcting someone on an information which is right based upon the laws and in other sites. I talked about correcting you based upon the verifable source for that info.
When I talk about something, I talk about what laws say on a specific information and how courts have dealt (or are still dealing) with those situations. If someone (or few people) has experienced totally different things than what laws say and how courts deal with that kind of situation, then that doesn't mean that I was wrong in my info, nor it means that a right thing was done to this someone when s/he experienced differently. For example, someone on this site has become a US citizen despite of being convicted for a shoplifting. Of course, this person was not approved by himself/herself; rather USCIS officer approved the citizenship application for this person. Rather than revoking the green card and deporting this convicted person based upon what laws say on a shoplifting conviction, officer not only approved this person's citizenship application but also went ahead in explaining/talking that it is okay and shoplifting is not a big matter.
Now, I cannot speak for that Immigration officer who approved citizenship application for this convicted shoplifter. I can only speak for myself based upon what immigration laws say on a shoplifting conviction and how courts handle this matter. Similarly, just because officer approved a citizenship application for this person, that doesn't mean that officer made a right decision or the application was approved accordingly to the law. Nor it means that such decision could not be reversed upon finding. I'm sure you know how many times USCIS acted wrongly. Even this person has blamed the USCIS many times for doing things differently. Then, what made anyone to think that officer's decision was right in that person's case given how many times USCIS have done things wrongly?
The only reason for me to have talked about this person's citizenship case is just you to know that I give info based upon what I've learned and know about laws and how courts have dealt with those matter in a given situation. That is all. I cannot speak for that officer or someone's else otherwise experience.
Back to the issue at hand, this is NOT about me and you; rather it is about helping people on this subject matter as much as we could so that they would know the right information. Any kind of verifable information from you would greatly help people on this site especially when some people are probably very confused by now given the fact of these two different information. On one hand-they have information based upon your "personal experience" while on the other hand-they have a complete different information from 12-13 sites (which included a govt site as well).
In the absense of verifiable info from you on this subject, it would look as if you are standing alone in your claim against the laws on this matter in Neveda (including against the info that is posted on all those websites out there). It is similar to the fact that I would be standing alone if I would say that a marriage-based case can be approved without the necessity of filing I-130 even though my info on I-130 would be completely different than the info in/from laws books, USCIS website, thousands of immigration websites, and personal experiences of million of people on so many immigration forums.
I've nothing to do with correct and incorrect info here as I've already said here that I don't have first hand personal experience on this matter AND I've also quoted sources of my information to verify it. Thus, I'm just a messenger here. I do know many people who were married in Vegas, but I cannot ask them to come over here to verify all these information. That means, I am completely relying on these sites as my sources for my given information. Now, this is between your "personal experience" and the information on those websites (including govt. site").