Angelene,
I live with my husband in a house that he bought before we met.
The deed is in his and his mother names.
We decided not to change anything ( I mean not to include my name on it) because of complication it might cause. Plus, since the house was bought long before I moved here I don’t think that would be too hard to explain to INS. We have other join accounts and plenty of other evidence of bona find marriage, but we both keep our premarital assets separated.
It’s one thing to open a join checking account, but when you taking about mortgage payments it gets too complicated and one should consider whatever it’s an immigration officer that might, or might not make a big deal out of it, or the loan officer, who will slap you with the bigger payments for the next 30 years.
But…. that’s just my opinion, I am not advising you to follow it, just sharing my story. Do as you think it’s better for you, for your situation.
Or maybe somebody else has a better suggestion?
Jane