wow, you are scaring me, uh no his mother did not became sitizen and he did not adopted him. So it doesn't matter that I have kids here and my husband work and no one to be with them? wow I don't want to go home and be without my kids, I don't know if I can handle this one, I have two little girls 1 is 6 years old and the little one is 19 months old. thank you for your opinion. 