Stay or flee....but the ban is your master
IAG said:
So if my spouse becomes a USC, I will be ok, right? If not, and I attempt to file based on my PD then I will have problems?
So what is my best option at this time?
IAG,
First I hope you don't support Chelsea or Liverpool...
On a serious note, you best option is if you are married to a US citizen, then your PD becomes current as there is no need to wait for a visa number to become available.
As the RCanadian mentioned, once you leave the US, you are subject to a 10 year ban.
I know you have a WVP, but it won't help you in the future when you come to the US, because you will be turned back at the Port of Entry. As much as I know how it feels to sit at home, you ought to weigh this frustration with the thought of not being able to visit the US till 2017
Sadly, if you leave the US now, and you get married to a US citizen in the UK, she won't be able to petition for you till 2017,because of the ban that the US govt would have imposed on you, even though you aren't subject to visa number limitations.
However, if you get married now here in the US, there is a high probability that your greencard situation will be settled before the end of this year, if your DO is faster. As such, you can travel to the UK all you want, without the fear of never being allowed back into the US...
Also, once you leave the US, no waiver exist that can get you back into the country.
Please, I am not advocating you get married to evade the immigration laws of the US.
One exception, you become the PM of England... or MP in the House of Commons...
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