I agree that we can be more tolerant...
...of people who "appear" to be most affected personally by this GC wait. While it is absolutely okay and even encouraged to a certain degree to vent one's frustrations and disappointments in these forums, we must be be cognizant of it's ramifications in the long run.
When most of us read the bad news on certain "fridays" or "mondays" when the infamous bulletins come out, we are upset and peeved, but usually we bounce back in a few days (regardless of how good or bad those news may be), and continue with our lives (or continue our search for truth, as the case may be
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But when things that we "virtually" have no control over, the gross inefficiencies of USCIS/DOS that we cannot fix, start to overwhelm us (and unbeknownst to us affect our mental peace and stasis), then we must pause and take note. Granted, some are more melancholic than others and always need "some" worry in their lives to feel alive and okay. Add to that the element of confusion of what is right for us, what options to exercise etc, and it is easy to be bewildered. Personally, I try not to get affected by other's lamentations or unbridled enthusiams as in the end, my situation is unique and I must invest the time and effort to find my own solutions.
Posmd, I agree that as first-generation immigrants we are more driven to succeed and fix things we can. But sometimes there are things that are much bigger than us, and well beyond our realm of control. It is still okay to continue to try to change things, to fight for what is right (not just what is right for us), but it must be tempered with realism, especially when we "know" that we are dealing with one of Federal Government's most inept agencies.