I think you guys need to RELAX alittle bet! I went throught what you are going through right now! and i understand the anxiety! but you need to be aware that it may take years before you hear back from them! the lucky ones from you will get it sooner others like me, pepsico and hotice910 almost 2 years and trust me there are others over 3 years. We just learned how to live with it, and wait for it to come, I don't even mind sending inquieries anymore because you allways get the same answer your case is pending and NOBODY can do anything about it.
I think you will learn how to deal with the anxiety, I know it is not easy. I don't feel anxiety anymore, instead there is always worry that after waiting so long I still get denied. It just comes and goes whenever I think about it, just like right now I had to check this forum! LOL
One more thing not to scare you guys! you can get denied anytime, even me with almost 2 years there is still the same chance that I get deinied, I know people on the forums who got denied after 10 months!!! I don't mean to scare you, stay positive and if your case stays pending for over 180 days get an EAD and start working or keep studying. Just go on with your life untill the right moment arrives and you get approved. Good luck to you guys, If you have questions read my older posts.