interesting, I thought I explained my self above, I put that disclaimer when I was in the citizenship forums, now that I am in different forum, and some of you think it's cocky statement, I removed it, because I am not going to give answers anyway, still I need to learn about the family visa.
and about searching in this forum, I have done that, and the best step by step one I found was the following
http://boards.immigrationportal.com/showthread.php?t=202993&highlight=wife+mom
And I think it was confusing to me, it's more like listing all the forms I need to fill, beside it's being a bit old 2005, so I thought there is another thread that everybody aware of, and was hoping that someone will pass it, I didn't ask you to search for me, if you have it you going to post it , if you don't then you don't have to look for it for me.
and for the person who said 6years old, please read my post, I don't believe I cross any line
Thanks to all