I also have to say, this part has kept bugging me. you’d been in the US almost 6 months, applied for another 6 months, did not mention the spouse yet later applied for adjustment based on the spouse, should you get to an i485 interview I think this is likely to raise questions in the mind of a USCIS interviewer with your whole file in front of him/her as to whether there was a material omission in the i539 application.
@SusieQQQ - you raised 2 queries. Thanks. This 2nd query first - I-539 does not ask about spouse. It just asks your US address and reason to extend (covid flight shutdown). B1 visa application (which I filed 5 yrs back in home country) asks about spouse name/address where I stated correctly with spouse's US address. Even the CBP entry form doesn't ask about spouse. Whenever I visited US, I stayed with sibling and only on this visit, much after I filed 539 in June2020, my spouse & I agreed in Nov2020 that we reunite and I file I-485 with her underlying I-140 & green card.
Now to your 1st query - when spouse filed her own EB I-140 in 2006, and later I-485 in 2017 etc, I was mentioned in her petition as a spouse with our 1994 marriage date, BUT I was not an applicant in her I-485. We were living separately, she in US and I was in my home country out of our will without any legal recourse. We also have a child (now a teenager), a US citizen who lives with spouse. Going further back, I entered US first in 1999 on H1, spouse on H4. I left after completing H1 period, spouse stayed in US and moved to H1 then EB based GC.
That said, I hope we will convince officer if we reach interview. It's a family trying to reunite, after separating during a 25 year old marriage.
As of now, my concern is this
@SusieQQQ -
1) wait for I-539, and if approved then file I-485 again using 245(k);
2) leave and try to enter again on B1 (if not voided), then file I-485 after 90-day rule;
3) leave and try for consular processing (I asked you above if I-824 follow-to-join is enough)
Any other options you can suggest? I will be supremely grateful to you. File I-485 & write to US congress representative? I also was reading about I-601 for some inadmissability waiver etc.