In the same boat.
We filed 140/485 in dec'04. Mine and my son 140/485 was approved on Aug 17th,2005. My wife got RFE ( medical report was incomplete- Doctor's mistake).
And we replied RFE on Aug31st. LUD on Aug 31st, Sep1st,2,3,6th and stopped.
My wife is tensed and checking 1000 times a...