Hi I am an f 1 student, just graduated two weeks back. Me n my bf (us citizen) want to get married and now having a hard time deciding where to do that. I want to return to my country and get married there but, according to my research, it'll take me a lot of time after marriage, on top of the wedding preparations-time, before I can join my husband in the US. I understand that the best way to go about it is getting married in the US and file the petition n AoS, along with i131and wait for a travel authorization to have a ceremony in my country. But in that case I risk getting out of status soon since I've already graduated. Is it against any laws if we get married in the US and then without filing anything I travel back to my country while my husband files all the documents here in addition to a spouse visa? Then we can have our ceremony when I get my visa n return with him to safe time of the wedding preparations. Also roughly how long would it take to get the visa after applying?