My spouse and I know each other for more than 10 years and are married for more than 2 years. Long distance for about 8 years. Moved together for a few months and he told me that he was not ready and needed to adjust to get used to being really with me. I was force to move out and we were in the same city, but we met only occasionally. To survive, I had to move to another city and got a new job, then he became friendly to me again. I found that he went vacation with one woman when I was in the same city with him. I confront with him and he told me that they did not have intimate relationship. But in the picture, he was topless and she was in his arms wearing bikini. And I am paying the phone bill and I noticed that he calls another woman several time a day almost on daily bases. He told me that that woman is married and they were just friends. He calls her even when he visited me, but never picked up her calls when I was around. A woman who is married calls him 5 times a day during the holidays and talk to him on 6:30am and 11:00pm? Guys , should I believe in him?
I thought that my kindness and consideration would make him change. But it seems that he never does. It is very painful to see that he betrays me like that even we started as very good friends. It is even more painful to see that he lies to me everyday when he talks to me.
PS: My conditial card expires in about a year, what should I do?
thanks for your input.
I thought that my kindness and consideration would make him change. But it seems that he never does. It is very painful to see that he betrays me like that even we started as very good friends. It is even more painful to see that he lies to me everyday when he talks to me.
PS: My conditial card expires in about a year, what should I do?