I just got my permanent residency card (green card) this May 1, 2008 this year. They granted me permanent residency from June 3, 2005 and will expire on April 4, 2018. So the effectivity will be on June 3, 2008.
On June 5, 2008; next month, I want to work in other State and leave marital home (Detroit) for work in California and will stay with my relatives. My husband and I we already agreed upon it and he approved me to work in other State.
My husband and I we married 2004; we have a lot of arguments I'm not happy with our relationship and so he is. He had 5 grown children, we don't have children together. I do understand that his priority are his children. "Blood is thickier than water" and whatever I do he will never appreciate it whether I cook, I clean, I serve him I know he will never appreciate it because his happiness are for his first family. I noticed my husband never really love me. He still love his ex-wife whom he had five grown children ages 30 to 35.
I'm 34 years old and my husband is 54 years old. He is twice divorced while me; he is my first boyfriend and my first husband. I got pregnant but ectopic since that I don't want to plan having a child with him because he never care about me. I was in the hospital alone don't want to watch me even with my regular check-up he dont want to help me.
I know he cannot love me because he still want his first family back. Him and his ex-wife got divorced 20 years ago. His ex-wife got the custody of his children and they lived in other State (Florida) now she came back in Detroit. So for him as if this is the first time he really misses his children and his ex-wife whom he saw only for few times. Of course, as a newly married couple; you are expecting your husband to plan for his new wife; but I never did saw him. We always pretending seeing his grown children in his ex-wife's house but I know he just want to see his ex-wife. He miss his ex-wife. He even cried and teary because he still remember when they got divorced. His ex-wife divorced him; he didn't like but the ex-wife is greedy for money and exchange him for rich man that's how my husband really hurt until now. I never felt love from him. He always shouted at me; he is confuse also. Eventhough how much care, love and act I show my husband I know he cannot love me. He just using me so that he can loans big amount of money because he filed bankruptcy before. He availed a lot of life insurances, accidental life insurances for me and I feared my life because his children had so many criminal records. My husband wants me to drive anywhere and I know they might plan for my accident so they can get rich. I sensed that my husband got jealous because his ex-wife new husband is a rich white jew man whom he got his money when his father (A doctor) died and got an inheritance. Now there's no way for my husband to get rich so he thought of having a wife from third world country and avail life insurances. I'm not foolish and damn. He said that mostly black people don't have a good life here on earth. That's why my husband wants his children to be secured before he died; he don't care for me. he cared about his grown children. He always say that this house where we live is not for me. That's why I filed for post nuptial agreement, everything will be for his grown children when he died. I don't like his house I don't like his money I know I' married to him and want to start a life; but for him his intention is not marrying me and start a new life and having a children; his intention is for companion and hoping I will have an accident outside so he can get rich.
Im from Detroit, Michigan, I want to work in California where my relatives are. For me I want to find my own future, I don't have future with my husband, I have no support from him, he always say that when he died his house will be for his children, he bought a land for his children and grandchildren. I don't have anything even money or bank savings account from my husband. I cook, I clean his house, I serve him I feel like I'm a maid with no salary.
My intention is to work far away from another State because I don't want to live here in his house where his grown children are. We live in Detroit and Im afraid to go out. For four years I've been in this house I don't go out becuase I fear my life. My husband's grown children have a criminal record. Robbery and less murder, their relatives always leave a message through the phone that his sons were hit by a gun on the head. How many times they've been in and out of the jail. Some of his relatives too are drug dealer in and out of the jail. For four years, I didn't went out of this house alone by myself I always locked the door; I cannot sleep I always look on the windows because how many times I called 911 somebody wants to get inside this house. I don't know them. I'm afraid that's why I decided to live apart from my husband and work in another State to be away from them. If I'll tell my husband for divorce I know he won't agree with it and I'm afraid he will do something harm to me. If I call Social welfare I don't want any trouble because my husband's family and relative are from here and they might know it and get angry with me. I live in a black community and my husband is black.
My question is what grounds will my husband can do against me. Can he sue me for leaving him or can the Immigration take away my green card. I have no intention of cheating with my husband. I'm thinking of my future and working?
On June 5, 2008; next month, I want to work in other State and leave marital home (Detroit) for work in California and will stay with my relatives. My husband and I we already agreed upon it and he approved me to work in other State.
My husband and I we married 2004; we have a lot of arguments I'm not happy with our relationship and so he is. He had 5 grown children, we don't have children together. I do understand that his priority are his children. "Blood is thickier than water" and whatever I do he will never appreciate it whether I cook, I clean, I serve him I know he will never appreciate it because his happiness are for his first family. I noticed my husband never really love me. He still love his ex-wife whom he had five grown children ages 30 to 35.
I'm 34 years old and my husband is 54 years old. He is twice divorced while me; he is my first boyfriend and my first husband. I got pregnant but ectopic since that I don't want to plan having a child with him because he never care about me. I was in the hospital alone don't want to watch me even with my regular check-up he dont want to help me.
I know he cannot love me because he still want his first family back. Him and his ex-wife got divorced 20 years ago. His ex-wife got the custody of his children and they lived in other State (Florida) now she came back in Detroit. So for him as if this is the first time he really misses his children and his ex-wife whom he saw only for few times. Of course, as a newly married couple; you are expecting your husband to plan for his new wife; but I never did saw him. We always pretending seeing his grown children in his ex-wife's house but I know he just want to see his ex-wife. He miss his ex-wife. He even cried and teary because he still remember when they got divorced. His ex-wife divorced him; he didn't like but the ex-wife is greedy for money and exchange him for rich man that's how my husband really hurt until now. I never felt love from him. He always shouted at me; he is confuse also. Eventhough how much care, love and act I show my husband I know he cannot love me. He just using me so that he can loans big amount of money because he filed bankruptcy before. He availed a lot of life insurances, accidental life insurances for me and I feared my life because his children had so many criminal records. My husband wants me to drive anywhere and I know they might plan for my accident so they can get rich. I sensed that my husband got jealous because his ex-wife new husband is a rich white jew man whom he got his money when his father (A doctor) died and got an inheritance. Now there's no way for my husband to get rich so he thought of having a wife from third world country and avail life insurances. I'm not foolish and damn. He said that mostly black people don't have a good life here on earth. That's why my husband wants his children to be secured before he died; he don't care for me. he cared about his grown children. He always say that this house where we live is not for me. That's why I filed for post nuptial agreement, everything will be for his grown children when he died. I don't like his house I don't like his money I know I' married to him and want to start a life; but for him his intention is not marrying me and start a new life and having a children; his intention is for companion and hoping I will have an accident outside so he can get rich.
Im from Detroit, Michigan, I want to work in California where my relatives are. For me I want to find my own future, I don't have future with my husband, I have no support from him, he always say that when he died his house will be for his children, he bought a land for his children and grandchildren. I don't have anything even money or bank savings account from my husband. I cook, I clean his house, I serve him I feel like I'm a maid with no salary.
My intention is to work far away from another State because I don't want to live here in his house where his grown children are. We live in Detroit and Im afraid to go out. For four years I've been in this house I don't go out becuase I fear my life. My husband's grown children have a criminal record. Robbery and less murder, their relatives always leave a message through the phone that his sons were hit by a gun on the head. How many times they've been in and out of the jail. Some of his relatives too are drug dealer in and out of the jail. For four years, I didn't went out of this house alone by myself I always locked the door; I cannot sleep I always look on the windows because how many times I called 911 somebody wants to get inside this house. I don't know them. I'm afraid that's why I decided to live apart from my husband and work in another State to be away from them. If I'll tell my husband for divorce I know he won't agree with it and I'm afraid he will do something harm to me. If I call Social welfare I don't want any trouble because my husband's family and relative are from here and they might know it and get angry with me. I live in a black community and my husband is black.
My question is what grounds will my husband can do against me. Can he sue me for leaving him or can the Immigration take away my green card. I have no intention of cheating with my husband. I'm thinking of my future and working?