Sure you can ask
Luna,
No one is bitter. We all are in the same boat (by the way, i m already approved, so i have no complains). I just thought that it would be nice for you to know that there are tons of guys around or prior date to yours, so for me, this question was "stupid".
Explain some thing to me :
FOR EXAMPLE:
There are 5000 people who replied to your post saying "me too".
What would that tell you. You got to understand ---- "No one is bitter, but we also expect sensible questions"... haha (joking).....
Let me ask you another example:
What would u say to a guy who applied for his I 485 in November 2004 and asked the same question -------- "Who all are left with him under process?"
GET MY POINT?