bhankas said:
StayPositive :
You may not have experienced lay-offs, so you're not in touch with reality. I know a couple of people who lived in NewHampshire, Vermont, Texas, Delaware and such places and they got laid off and had to relocate to places with abundant job opportunities to get a job.
Its good to be optimistic, but it pays to be pragmatic. If you get laid off (God forbid it), these words of mine will pinch you. Expenses in this country remain constant whether you're working or not. And you need a job to take care of that, not sunshine and beaches.
Yes, we had been thru that - company closing, layoff....whatever you can think of. It's part of life. Relocation is part of life because opportunities do not stay in one place - but it always should for a reason that makes sense. That's the very reason you relocated from another country, isn't it? It's good that your friends moved and got new jobs and I hope they are happy in their new places.
Secondly, migrating to a place where "enough" jobs or many companies are available does not help either. Let me give you one example. Sillicon Valley with "enough" companies and "enough" hi-tech jobs has one of the highest unemployment rates in the nation (yes, including hi-tech workers). Companies are moving out from valley. Now, if today HP, Sun, Oracle move to Texas, should you move to Texas because there are "enough" jobs? Probably, if you get a (one) good offer from one of them. Otherwise, it does not make sense to move there. On other other hand, if you like Sillicon Valley, stay there.
Thirdly, in India hi-tech industry is booming? Why don't you try to move there? There are "enough" jobs in India, if you are hi-tech worker. You want to stay here, right? Living standard, car, hasslefree life (well, some way), children's future matter, right?
That means just "enough" job is not "enough" reason for relocation, right?
Lastly, about beach and sunshine. When I was a kid my father used complain that I was wasting too much time watching sports/crickets - because they are not going to feed me anyway. Well, I am glad I did that (on offence to my father) and I still enjoy doing that. Very same way, you will find that lots of the people prefer sunshine, beach even though "it does not take care of expenses".
Final note: most of the industrial areas are actually close to beaches/sunshine - whether it's NY, Atlanta, LA, bay area, Tampa or San Diego. So, if you like beach, sunshine, I am sure you will find something that will take care of your expenses too.