Hi Techy,
You are right and i do not find your comments blunt. Here is what i find lacking from our discussions on this forum. There should be some effort of keeping this very good group together and they should help write up nice articles about in depth choices for people who are facing retro or other immigration matters. So once a new guy is hit by retro he will not find a forum full of desi people screaming at each other for something Catdog wrote !! Also the forum can have a real life connections by making a local gathering of the memebers who can easily meet with other members in person and make real life connections. If we have a good group of friends then we will obviously be feeling better about "Being in same boat". But once you get the GC you should not leave the boat but at least help other new people in the boat to adjust to the new reality of the GC process. Some of the folks will be missing very good opportunities in their life right now caz they do not know the options well and do not go for that. If they have a group of people helping them, they will make better choices and thus help releave some pressure off the community.
An online forum should not be something where members go and type few senctences, it should feel like a lively place full of people who want to help you and have a level of decency. I know i am talking about some hi-fi things here but believe me that USA became the #1 country by starting out on a helpful, decent, well-mannered, understanding community. If we can copy that slowly but surely India will be the same may be after 100-150 years from now but it is not impossible !!
If everyone was satisfied by Lycos and Yahoos of the world no one would have every thought of Google. Similarly there is a need for something special in community forums for indian people. Once that is served i will rest in peace. So help me GOD...