A friend of mine who's also an asylee and waiting for his green card received a call from his family today that his grandmother passed away yesterday.
He asked me: "What happens if if it was my mom or dad? If they're sick or something and I have to go see them?"
I didn't know what to tell him.
From my understanding, as long as you're not a citizen, and you go home, there's a big chance that you won't be able to return to the US, even if you have a green card, your trip will raise questions. But what if my friend returned to his country to attend his grandmother's funeral? Or to see his dad if he gets really ill sometime in the future? If he were to re-enter the States with evidence (death certificate, doctor's report or photographs), does it guarantee his return?
This is a moral dilemma that I'm sure many asylees face, especially since it takes up to a decade for us to get anywhere close to becoming a citizen (or in some cases, obtain a green card). On one hand, we fear for our lives if we were to live in our home country; on the other, there's the family ties.
He asked me: "What happens if if it was my mom or dad? If they're sick or something and I have to go see them?"
I didn't know what to tell him.
From my understanding, as long as you're not a citizen, and you go home, there's a big chance that you won't be able to return to the US, even if you have a green card, your trip will raise questions. But what if my friend returned to his country to attend his grandmother's funeral? Or to see his dad if he gets really ill sometime in the future? If he were to re-enter the States with evidence (death certificate, doctor's report or photographs), does it guarantee his return?
This is a moral dilemma that I'm sure many asylees face, especially since it takes up to a decade for us to get anywhere close to becoming a citizen (or in some cases, obtain a green card). On one hand, we fear for our lives if we were to live in our home country; on the other, there's the family ties.