Suppose, for a minute, that an American citizen is unable to go and see a foreign fiancee due to situations beyond his control.
For example, if the foreign fiancee is in China, and the American has autism. China flat-out states that no one is allowed a Chinese tourist visa if they have some kind of mental disorder, even though Autism is not a major one that could potentially cause problems.
This forces the Chinese fiancee to come see the American fiancee, rather than the other way around.
However, the allusive tourist visa, in this case, is darn-near IMPOSSIBLE to get because there is a pre-meditated intent to marry.
But, as long as the Chinese person pledges to not actually marry the American while on the tourist visa, and return to China, as expected, with the intent of applying for a fiancee visa to make it count.
Or, if they DO get married, but the Chinese person still returns to China after the marriage takes place, so that they can get a spousal visa, to make it count,
Then what's the problem? Sure, they're planning to settle in America...
...eventually...
...But as long as the Chinese person does, indeed, honor her promise to return home on the temporary visa, then why the hell not? I mean, she'll go back to China!
If she makes that promise, and then, overstays her visa, then, by all means, deport her! I don't think they would object, since they did, indeed, overstay their visa.
Instead of using it as grounds to deny their visa, altogether, they should instead appreciate the tourist's honesty, and recognize that this is the only way they can ever be together at all, and they are willing to split up after their first union if it means the possibility of getting to be together, for good, in the future.
Why is that such a problem?
For example, if the foreign fiancee is in China, and the American has autism. China flat-out states that no one is allowed a Chinese tourist visa if they have some kind of mental disorder, even though Autism is not a major one that could potentially cause problems.
This forces the Chinese fiancee to come see the American fiancee, rather than the other way around.
However, the allusive tourist visa, in this case, is darn-near IMPOSSIBLE to get because there is a pre-meditated intent to marry.
But, as long as the Chinese person pledges to not actually marry the American while on the tourist visa, and return to China, as expected, with the intent of applying for a fiancee visa to make it count.
Or, if they DO get married, but the Chinese person still returns to China after the marriage takes place, so that they can get a spousal visa, to make it count,
Then what's the problem? Sure, they're planning to settle in America...
...eventually...
...But as long as the Chinese person does, indeed, honor her promise to return home on the temporary visa, then why the hell not? I mean, she'll go back to China!
If she makes that promise, and then, overstays her visa, then, by all means, deport her! I don't think they would object, since they did, indeed, overstay their visa.
Instead of using it as grounds to deny their visa, altogether, they should instead appreciate the tourist's honesty, and recognize that this is the only way they can ever be together at all, and they are willing to split up after their first union if it means the possibility of getting to be together, for good, in the future.
Why is that such a problem?