Pleaseeeee help me.

[fefee]

HI,
Im 3 months pregnant and my delivery is in jan 2011 .my parents has five years multiple u.s visa but that will be expired on feb 1st.they canot come here before december because of some personal resons .i want them to stay here after my delivery.will they be able to get an extension at that time how many chances are there ....please help me if u know any thing that can be useful for me.please do write in detail. i would really appreciate that. will be waiting for ur replies.
Thanks.

 

[Concerned4us]

Visa is for entry,; I-94 is for stay. Visas cannot be extended; they must reapply. Caring for a grandchild is not a reason for extending an authorized stay. Babysitting for the baby so that you can return to work is illegal. If you need babysitting, begin looking for a licensed child care provider now and get on the list for your expected delivery date plus 6 weeks; this is the standard maternity leave for US workers. If your employer has supplemental benefits, adjust the start date at child care accordingly.

You are an adult and should be capable of dealing with an infant with only the assistance of the father of your child; many women I know with husbands whose jobs require them to be away for months at a time manage all by themselves. If you are not able to care for an infant, you are irresponsible for becoming pregnant. Your hospital or birthing center will offer classes for first time parents on infant care; take that so that you and not your parents are in charge of your baby's care. There are support groups of new mothers to provide peer support. The thought of caring for an infant may be overwhelming right now, but it really isn't that difficult; if you cannot deal with an infant, you won't survive a teenager. As long as the baby is loved, feed and kept clean everything is great.

 

[Triple Citizen]

Validity of visa is independent of how long a stay may be authorized. They can use the visa on its last day and still be granted a six month stay.

i want them to stay here after my delivery.

 

[fefee]

hi,
mr.or miss CONCERNED .i just wana say that i love my parents they will meet me after 2 years .thats y i want them to stay longer.okay.i dnt want them as a babysitter or as a helper coz i dnt work n if i want a baby sitter i can afford a baby sitter as well so dnt need ur advices.n besides that u dnt ve the right to call anyone irresponsible.i really appreciate ur concern but im sorry u didnt understand me what i was tryin to say.so please dont tell me what to do n what not.
thanks .




[/LIST]; I-94 is for stay. Visas cannot be extended; they must reapply. Caring for a grandchild is not a reason for extending an authorized stay. Babysitting for the baby so that you can return to work is illegal. If you need babysitting, begin looking for a licensed child care provider now and get on the list for your expected delivery date plus 6 weeks; this is the standard maternity leave for US workers. If your employer has supplemental benefits, adjust the start date at child care accordingly.

You are an adult and should be capable of dealing with an infant with only the assistance of the father of your child; many women I know with husbands whose jobs require them to be away for months at a time manage all by themselves. If you are not able to care for an infant, you are irresponsible for becoming pregnant. Your hospital or birthing center will offer classes for first time parents on infant care; take that so that you and not your parents are in charge of your baby's care. There are support groups of new mothers to provide peer support. The thought of caring for an infant may be overwhelming right now, but it really isn't that difficult; if you cannot deal with an infant, you won't survive a teenager. As long as the baby is loved, feed and kept clean everything is great.[/QUOTE]