Will
you ever get it?
I don't mean the I485 adjudication; I mean the concept of being civil without resorting to name-calling. There seems a trend in the forum towards this, and it leads to no good because it will get easier to escalate the level of impropriety.
Everyone is just as frustrated with the wait, so just tough it out. Or show the world just what a bunch of wimps this forum is all about. I come here to check out I485 issues at NSC -- not to wade through teary-eyed posts.
See
http://boards.immigrationportal.com/showthread.php?t=101243