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[rekhaa]

hello

me & husband has just domestic issues so coz of this he is threatning me to cancel my gc. i want to know is it possible that husband can cancel my gc without my knowledge. i had h4 visa & i'm simmply housewife & never worked in us.do i have any other options to stop him from this step.

secondly i have confirm tickets to come back usa.since i don't have any contact with my husband so how i'll know what step he is going to take or there is anyway that i can check my gc status.please help me.

worried mom

 

[phatakmah]

How can he?

How can he cancel your processing? When employers are not daring to cancel H1B, I dont think your husband will do that. Incase if he does that, it will adversly reflect his GC processing also.
THe other way. if you have EAD number, you can go to https://egov.immigration.gov/cris/jsps/login.jsp;jsessionid=egRw1azVYxA-
and register yourself by giving your EAD no. Then you can keep on checking the status of your application online. Hope this would help.

 

[great guru]

hello

me & husband has just domestic issues so coz of this he is threatning me to cancel my gc. i want to know is it possible that husband can cancel my gc without my knowledge. i had h4 visa & i'm simmply housewife & never worked in us.do i have any other options to stop him from this step.

secondly i have confirm tickets to come back usa.since i don't have any contact with my husband so how i'll know what step he is going to take or there is anyway that i can check my gc status.please help me.

Worried Mom, give some more info Quickly.

Did your husband got GC through his employer along with you? When?
worried mom

 

[arizonian]

hello

me & husband has just domestic issues so coz of this he is threatning me to cancel my gc. i want to know is it possible that husband can cancel my gc without my knowledge. i had h4 visa & i'm simmply housewife & never worked in us.do i have any other options to stop him from this step.

secondly i have confirm tickets to come back usa.since i don't have any contact with my husband so how i'll know what step he is going to take or there is anyway that i can check my gc status.please help me.

worried mom

What is your immigration status at this time? Looks like you already have your green card, and that your husband got an employment based GC, with you as the dependent.

If that is the case, he CANNOT cancel your GC and you are safe.

 

[pinewilly]

It is really sad that you are going through all this...
Someone very kind posted me this advise when I was in similar situation.. Hopefully it will be of some help...

"If your husband has green card case that is far enough long, then you may be eligible to file as his derivative even if he does not cooperate.
In green card cases, it is not a matter of putting the wife's name on the case. The wife is not added in. The dependent spouse actually files their own Form I-485 based upon the fact of the marriage and the primary spouse's case. This can only be done at the same time or after the primary spouse files the I-485. This requires the approval of a labor certification and the filing of an I-140.
In order to obtain a green card based upon the spouses pending green card it is necessary to be married. If there is a divorce then it is not possible.
If he already have GC then there are chances that you have been also added in there as lawfully a married person has to add his/her spouse name on all legal document. "
If you have H4 visa stamped on your passport, then you should try getting here before it get expired..
There are many organization and hotlines that can help you in many way.. which you will have access to once you are here..US immigration laws ais very strict and sensitive for domestic violence cases ..

In case of pending GC case, you can apply petition by your own..
If he is GC and you are not aware then also there may be a way to find out.. like advised above... But you should not worry about anything .. its just matter of connecting all pieces that are spread around until you find your stand..


best of luck

 

[quark4]

hello

me & husband has just domestic issues so coz of this he is threatning me to cancel my gc. i want to know is it possible that husband can cancel my gc without my knowledge. i had h4 visa & i'm simmply housewife & never worked in us.do i have any other options to stop him from this step.

secondly i have confirm tickets to come back usa.since i don't have any contact with my husband so how i'll know what step he is going to take or there is anyway that i can check my gc status.please help me.

worried mom

Rekha,

Please describe your issue in a bit more detail.
Do you already have a GC?
Did your husband's emplyer sponsor this GC?
Are you outside the USA at present?
How long ago did you get your GC?

By the way, it will be very hard for your husband to "cancel" your green card, so relax.

 

[rekhaa]

Thank U

Thanks all of u for all ur help. i'm now in us & there is another problem he hit me & i called police just to scare him.i didn't press any charge but they put his name in record.now he is telling me go back india.i've no money how can i go back india & another thing there is one moth left to be 6 month to maintain gc status.i've got my gc dec 2003.what if i go back india then after one year reentry is possible?i've two small kids.they r citizen.

 

[nother1inline]

Thanks all of u for all ur help. i'm now in us & there is another problem he hit me & i called police just to scare him.i didn't press any charge but they put his name in record.now he is telling me go back india.i've no money how can i go back india & another thing there is one moth left to be 6 month to maintain gc status.i've got my gc dec 2003.what if i go back india then after one year reentry is possible?i've two small kids.they r citizen.

What a Bas... after having 2 kids with you!! I feel real bad for you. Hope you come out of this safely. If he is a techie and you want to make his life a little miserable you can give it a shot by sharing his name - I am in the consulting business so I could send some real nice things about him to a lot of consulting vendors . Don't know if that will help but guys who raise hands on wives deserve much worse especially those who get their wives as a dependent from foreign countries...