Need for bringing wife's daughter just got more urgent - please help

timmy_d11

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My wife is from Colombia, and I'm from the US. I'm her sponsor. My brother co-sponsored her because I lost my job just before our interview. We suffered a setback of a few months because the USCIS dropped the ball and initially denied her because they failed to consider our cosponsor when they cited my lack of employment.

Anyway, my wife received her green card recently, but not until after her mother got very sick. She is now visiting her family, finally, but her mother is even MORE sick - as in "in the hospital" sick. It appears to be incurable cancer. Obviously this is killing my wife inside - and me too when I realize how much she is suffering on account of this. She loves her mother very much.

This creates another problem, though. My wife's mother has been like a mother to my wife's daughter. And if the unthinkable happens my wife's daughter will be watched by my wife's sister, brother and father, but, unlike her mother, they all work and will not be home for hours after she gets home from school. We may need to pay a babysitter for a few hours - that shouldn't be too much of a problem.

My wife's daughter is 12 years old. We have had every intention of bringing her over here, as soon as possible, and as soon as my wife's own immigration situation was resolved, and we could get our lives and home in order.

We would like to put our plans to bring her over into high gear now.

Our finances are not the greatest - I only recently started a job after being unemployed for a while and we have some things to catch up on. My wife will also need to finally get a decent job to help us along.

Can any of you tell me in detail what needs to be done to arrange to bring her daughter here? Which forms? How much will it cost? Should I do the forms myself or find a way to pay for a professional to help us so that we don't make any mistakes in the process and have any more unnecessary setbacks? (I'm hoping my wife and I can do our own forms without any problems because we really can't afford any assistance)

Any and all information, help and advice would be tremendously appreciated.
 
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My wife is from Colombia, and I'm from the US. I'm her sponsor. My brother co-sponsored her because I lost my job just before our interview. We suffered a setback of a few months because the USCIS dropped the ball and initially denied her because they failed to consider our cosponsor when they cited my lack of employment.

Anyway, my wife received her green card recently, but not until after her mother got very sick. She is now visiting her family, finally, but her mother is even MORE sick - as in "in the hospital" sick. It appears to be incurable cancer. Obviously this is killing my wife inside - and me too when I realize how much she is suffering on account of this. She loves her mother very much.

This creates another problem, though. My wife's mother has been like a mother to my wife's daughter. And if the unthinkable happens my wife's daughter will be watched by my wife's sister, brother and father, but, unlike her mother, they all work and will not be home for hours after she gets home from school. We may need to pay a babysitter for a few hours - that shouldn't be too much of a problem.

My wife's daughter is 12 years old. We have had every intention of bringing her over here, as soon as possible, and as soon as my wife's own immigration situation was resolved, and we could get our lives and home in order.

We would like to put our plans to bring her over into high gear now.

Our finances are not the greatest - I only recently started a job after being unemployed for a while and we have some things to catch up on. My wife will also need to finally get a decent job to help us along.

Can any of you tell me in detail what needs to be done to arrange to bring her daughter here? Which forms? How much will it cost? Should I do the forms myself or find a way to pay for a professional to help us so that we don't make any mistakes in the process and have any more unnecessary setbacks? (I'm hoping my wife and I can do our own forms without any problems because we really can't afford any assistance)

Any and all information, help and advice would be tremendously appreciated.

Tim, it is good to hear from you. I am sorry to hear your wife's mom is sick. I will pray for her. Look into the K-4 visa for wife's daughter. I wish you the best. Take care.
 
My wife is from Colombia, and I'm from the US. I'm her sponsor. My brother co-sponsored her because I lost my job just before our interview. We suffered a setback of a few months because the USCIS dropped the ball and initially denied her because they failed to consider our cosponsor when they cited my lack of employment.

Anyway, my wife received her green card recently, but not until after her mother got very sick. She is now visiting her family, finally, but her mother is even MORE sick - as in "in the hospital" sick. It appears to be incurable cancer. Obviously this is killing my wife inside - and me too when I realize how much she is suffering on account of this. She loves her mother very much.

This creates another problem, though. My wife's mother has been like a mother to my wife's daughter. And if the unthinkable happens my wife's daughter will be watched by my wife's sister, brother and father, but, unlike her mother, they all work and will not be home for hours after she gets home from school. We may need to pay a babysitter for a few hours - that shouldn't be too much of a problem.

My wife's daughter is 12 years old. We have had every intention of bringing her over here, as soon as possible, and as soon as my wife's own immigration situation was resolved, and we could get our lives and home in order.

We would like to put our plans to bring her over into high gear now.

Our finances are not the greatest - I only recently started a job after being unemployed for a while and we have some things to catch up on. My wife will also need to finally get a decent job to help us along.

Can any of you tell me in detail what needs to be done to arrange to bring her daughter here? Which forms? How much will it cost? Should I do the forms myself or find a way to pay for a professional to help us so that we don't make any mistakes in the process and have any more unnecessary setbacks? (I'm hoping my wife and I can do our own forms without any problems because we really can't afford any assistance)

Any and all information, help and advice would be tremendously appreciated.

Tim, it is good to hear from you. I am sorry to hear your wife's mom is sick. I will pray for her. Look into the K-4 visa for wife's daughter. I wish you the best. Take care.
 
Thanks NeShawn - you've been a big supporter from nearly the beginning and I appreciate it.

Can you or anyone else tell me specifically what forms I will need to fill out, what other documents will need to accompany those forms, and what the fees involved in this will be?

Thanks a lot.
 
Please, any detailed instruction on how to go about doing this would be tremendously appreciated. It has become quite urgent, possibly for the safety and well-being of the child.
 
she can't get a K-4 visa, since the wife will not be getting a K-3 visa (because she already has a GC).

You as a step-father can file I-130 for the daugher. She will get her immigrant visa within a year.

Not that you were looking for advise, but the situation where "they all work and will not be home for hours after she gets home from school" is very common in the States as well, when parents are working full-time. Kids as young as 14 can be babysitters themselves.
 
she can't get a K-4 visa, since the wife will not be getting a K-3 visa (because she already has a GC).

You as a step-father can file I-130 for the daugher. She will get her immigrant visa within a year

Thank you very much.

Not that you were looking for advise, but the situation where "they all work and will not be home for hours after she gets home from school" is very common in the States as well, when parents are working full-time. Kids as young as 14 can be babysitters themselves.

You're absolutely right.

But I think my wife would have more peace of mind if she was home alone here instead if there, a continent away with NO control of the situation.

Well, of course she wants here here ASAP - but now it seems like a safety thing.
 
you could have just written - the mother wants the daughter to be with her. :) Good luck with everything! Be patient, it takes several months to get an immigrant visa, upto to about a year.
 
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