Cagal
Thru your postings, I’ve been unable to know what is the final disposition on your husband’s arrest. I do know that District Attorney has decided not to press charge against him, but it is not clear that it is over. Deciding a thing is something different than actually happened. Anyway, if your husband won’t be charged, he is okay even though he was arrested.
What people should know is-an arrest doesn’t mean that a person will automatically be deported or denied for immigration benefit, nor it means that allegations against him/her are already proven. The truth is- in order for USCIS to deny someone an immigration benefit or to deport someone, there MUST be a conviction in a Court of law. There are thousands of reported cases wherein BIA and federal courts reversed the decisions made by Immigration judges wherein Immigration Judges decided to deport immigrants based upon immigrants’ admission of committing crimes. BIA and Federal Courts said that even if an alien admits of committing crime/wrong doing, s/he couldn’t be deported unless s/he is found guilty in the Court of law. So the point is-USCIS needs a conviction, and not arrest/charge/allegation in order to deny an immigration benefit or to deport someone.
Thus, your husband won’t have any problem despite of him being arrested. Because, he is not convicted. But since he was arrested, then he MUST need to disclose it on his N-400 as USCIS requires disclosure of ANY arrest, charge, citation, and indictment even if there is no conviction AND even if the records on all these are sealed/expunged. Hiding or not telling about it would be a ground in itself for them to deny his N-400 under the clause of ‘bad character’. Because lying is a sign of bad character.
Further, since your husband was not formally charged on this arrest, then Police and Criminal court won’t be able to provide any documentation to him on this because they don’t have anything to provide to him. But since, USCIS would like to know more about this arrest, then it is better for him to attach a written explanation on this and submit it along with N-400. He should be making sure not to give too much detail to them. He should explain very briefly by saying that he was arrested on domestic violence call, but Police later determined that there was NO domestic violence situation, rather a normal conversation between a married couple. That is.
Whether or not you guys should hire an immigration attorney would depend upon how complex his case is. As far as his involvement in this domestic violence situation goes, he really doesn’t need an attorney as there is nothing an attorney can do than what I’m telling you here. But if you still want to hire an attorney then it would be your choice anyway.
Next time, before you loose your mind/temper-think many times; otherwise you could NEVER be stayed with your husband here unless you would leave this country with him. Because if he ever gets convicted on Domestic Violence charge, then he will be deported automatically with LIFETIME bar to return to USA. You being a naturalized citizen or having US born children won’t do anything to help him staying here.
In my personal opinion, you did a VERY stupid thing, whether you realize it or not. Because family should resolve their problems by themselves than involving others in their problems. Nonetheless, involving Police. Especially when there was nothing dangerous to your life/health. Every couple has problem at times, but that doesn’t mean that they should be calling Police on each other. See, who is suffering now? No need me tell you about the money that you guys spent on hiring criminal defense attorney and loss of peace of mind. Do you believe it’s Police’s job to provide counseling to people? Police can arrest anyone at anytime if they believe that there is a probable cause for a crime to be committed or a crime has already committed. Arresting your husband was justified by Police officer because he saw a scratch on your finger.
Do you honestly believe on Police about what they are saying now to you guys about overusing the laws in his situation? This is nothing than just BS. Actually they realized (obviously thru the hot arguments with your husband’s criminal defense attorney) that they couldn’t get a conviction on your husband and Judge will throw out their case anyway, because you (supposedly victim) won’t cooperate with them, especially when you admitted happening nothing violent when you guys were arguing. In my personal opinion, not only your husband, but you also need a family/marriage counseling, given the fact when you involved the authorities over just car key’s dispute.
Good Luck.