Wow really. I hope Cherry Hill is the same way since I'm in that district. From what I heard, its about 10 mos to max of 1 year in CH but the oath is the same day you pass the interview. From what I saw on the posts, it seems to have sped recently. Anyway, thanks for sharing.
JoeF, I did speak to a lawyer, and a good one at that. She said that I should be honest about everything on the N400 as everyone suggested. This is what I intended to do anyway. She did say that in her 15 year experience, she hasnt heard of anyone being deported due to a N400 application with the same situation as I am. She even said that in her experience, she hasnt heard of a case where the INS or any of its agencies run after an employer for hiring an illegal allien, who is trying to become legal, as an example. Of course, if my spouse commits a crime it might be a different story. Is it a slum dunk that she wont get deported? I think the answer is that its not 100% as she suggested but the likelihood of that happenning is slim to none. Other respondents on my posts with other forums who were on the same situation like mine seem to attest to that as well.
One more thing, someone suggested to me to file an I-30 as an LPR while waiting to become a USC. This will not expedite her being legal but I thought it might stave off deportation, if that happens, while waiting to be a USC. The same lawyer said that it is a logical approach but wont really need it until deportation proceedings do take place. According to her an I-130 is easy to file and at that point, I will need to hire a lawyer to get things done accurately.
I feel much better now that I have people responding to this post and consulting a good lawyer. The best scenario is that I get thru and become a USC without glitch. In the event it doesnt happen that way, at least my spouse and I have courses of action to take. This forum and your suggestions have minimized my anxieties and sleepless nights. I will keep you posted to share my experience. Once again, thanks to everyone.