My wife refused to go with me for my stoke interview can i attend it myself without him?

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ladorious

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Hello Everyone,
i am married to a u.s citizen in 09/13/2011 in which we enter the marriage in good faith,and we also have documentation that backed it up.We filed for i-130,i-485 and i-765. We were called for the first interview in may 2012 but we missed it because i have a stomachache on the morning of our interview.We rescheduled and we were also called for the second interview in September 2012 and we went..The Immigration officer asked us question and said our fill will be review and they will get back to us in the mail on the decision. Later in November i got a letter for stokes interview for the 14 of november 2012. But before then my wife is not co-operating with because she is cheating on me and abusing me brutally.As a result of this she always threaten with all sort of thing that she will have her brother injure me if i don't live the house for her. Since she refused to go with me for the stokes interview which is tomorrow 14 November 2012, can i attend the interview without out her, and go with the all evidence and documentation that shows the marriage was entered in good faith and a police report that was made when she the problem with me?

Please i need an urgent advice on this matter.Thank you
 
Can you provide proof of all this claimed abuse? If so, take a look at VAWA at uscis.gov.

ladorious said:
Since she refused to go with me for the stokes interview which is tomorrow 14 November 2012, can i attend the interview without out her, and go with the all evidence and documentation that shows the marriage was entered in good faith and a police report that was made when she the problem with me?
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If you read up on VAWA, you will learn what form is used to apply. Once you know the form number, you can then lookup processing time for that form. One tip about this excellent community, no one likes those expecting to be spoon fed.

ladorious said:
Yes, i do have all the proof for the claimed abuse.But how long does vawa take?
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You do know that not showing up for your first interview is a big black mark against you? I am sorry to say however your case looks like the poster child for sham marriage. I hope you have VERY SOLID evidence of abuse including police reports/social worker notifications etc otherwise your application is dead on arrival.

Good luck!

ladorious said:
Hello Everyone,
i am married to a u.s citizen in 09/13/2011 in which we enter the marriage in good faith,and we also have documentation that backed it up.We filed for i-130,i-485 and i-765. We were called for the first interview in may 2012 but we missed it because i have a stomachache on the morning of our interview.
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Hello Everyone,
my wife refused to follow me to the stokes interview and my lawyer of record has a conflict in his schedule so he didn't follow me as well...I went there myself and explain to the IO so she said she will note it and if they reschedule me they will let me know or if they didn't i may get a decision in the mail. Now, me and her have agreed to write a letter to USCIS and withdraw the application (i-130 and i-485). My question is:

1. Is it possible to withdraw the application at this stage before a decision is make?
2. If i withdraw can i divorce her and re-marry again?

Please i need your urgent advice on this crucial matter.
 
A1: You may write directly to the DO to withdraw it. Or simple do not turn up for the next (re-scheduled) interview and your AOS will automatically get denied.
A2: Re-marry whom? Another US citizen?

I have to agree with ananga73 here. As you post more and more to this thread, you show signs that your eventual goal is just to get PR status, by any avenue possible. Nothing else. What was your status before you applied for AOS? Do you have a valid and unexpired I-94 to fall back on if your AOS is denied?


ladorious said:
1. Is it possible to withdraw the application at this stage before a decision is make?
2. If i withdraw can i divorce her and re-marry again?
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Triple Citizen said:
A1: You may write directly to the DO to withdraw it. Or simple do not turn up for the next (re-scheduled) interview and your AOS will automatically get denied.
A2: Re-marry whom? Another US citizen?

I have to agree with ananga73 here. As you post more and more to this thread, you show signs that your eventual goal is just to get PR status, by any avenue possible. Nothing else. What was your status before you applied for AOS? Do you have a valid and unexpired I-94 to fall back on if your AOS is denied?
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My goal is not to get PR by all means,but my concern is not loosing my F-1 status because i have done reinstatement before, but i am current in school.I don't know if my status has changed as of now.. Yes, a U.S citizen. I have a valid I-94 card as an f-1
 
Write in to withdraw your petition as Triple Citizen suggeste. Since you are still in valid F1 status, you do not want to just miss the interview because then they might put you in removal proceedings without observing your valid F1 status.

Do note that applying for adjustment of status to permanent resident essentially means that going forward you are technically no longer eligible for a non-immigrant since you have shown immigration intent.

They probably will turn a blind eye to it while you continue your studies and stay in the USA however if you have a need to go outside the country and get a visa to enter, you might face significant problems either with the visa or at the point of entry.

Cheers.

ladorious said:
My goal is not to get PR by all means,but my concern is not loosing my F-1 status because i have done reinstatement before, but i am current in school.I don't know if my status has changed as of now.. Yes, a U.S citizen. I have a valid I-94 card as an f-1
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My post my be too late. But your immigration to the states is gonna be very tough even if you have documents. Be ready for more interviews and RFEs
 
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