Hi, how's everyone?
I'm new to this forum. I'm writing too seek some helps and suggestions. My writing will be a little bit long and complicated. I would be appreciate if anyone can help me. I'm so desperate right now.
I'm an asylee. I applied for asylum application on April 2001. After having fingerprinted, I was schedule an interview with asylum officer on 12th June 2001. At the end of interview, the asylum officer told me to come back 2 weeks later to get the decision letter about my case. (It would be on June 26)
On 19th June 2001, my fiance came from my native country with a visa to get marry with me in US. So, we did it on 20th June 2001 at city hall. 2 weeks later, he went back to my native country.
On 26th June 2001, I came back to INS office to get the decision letter. It was a good news for me because my asylum application was approved. It was said in the decision letter that I was granted asylum on 12th June 2001 which means I was granted right away after having interview but they didn't let me know until 2 weeks later.
On somewhen in Sept 2001 I filed an I-730. On Jan 2002, came the result of my petition and it was denied. The reason why was because we were married after I was granted.
So, since that time, I have long distant relationship with my husband. That's why, we don't want to have baby until we find out how to live together.
A lawyer told me to wait until my Greencard is issued. I did just file I-485 last month. I also just found out that asylee's I-485s that have been receive in year 2002 will be processed in 2012. it means I have to keep having long distant relationship with my husband for more than 10 years.
The other options that I don't want to choose are going back to my native country (which mean I'll lost my asylum status) or getting a divorce. No, I don't want it. I love him too much to get a divorce.
Someone also suggested me to seek help from congressman. My question here is if there is any other way to get him here to stay?
I really appreciate any comments from you. Thank you so much and please wish me luck.
I'm new to this forum. I'm writing too seek some helps and suggestions. My writing will be a little bit long and complicated. I would be appreciate if anyone can help me. I'm so desperate right now.
I'm an asylee. I applied for asylum application on April 2001. After having fingerprinted, I was schedule an interview with asylum officer on 12th June 2001. At the end of interview, the asylum officer told me to come back 2 weeks later to get the decision letter about my case. (It would be on June 26)
On 19th June 2001, my fiance came from my native country with a visa to get marry with me in US. So, we did it on 20th June 2001 at city hall. 2 weeks later, he went back to my native country.
On 26th June 2001, I came back to INS office to get the decision letter. It was a good news for me because my asylum application was approved. It was said in the decision letter that I was granted asylum on 12th June 2001 which means I was granted right away after having interview but they didn't let me know until 2 weeks later.
On somewhen in Sept 2001 I filed an I-730. On Jan 2002, came the result of my petition and it was denied. The reason why was because we were married after I was granted.
So, since that time, I have long distant relationship with my husband. That's why, we don't want to have baby until we find out how to live together.
A lawyer told me to wait until my Greencard is issued. I did just file I-485 last month. I also just found out that asylee's I-485s that have been receive in year 2002 will be processed in 2012. it means I have to keep having long distant relationship with my husband for more than 10 years.
The other options that I don't want to choose are going back to my native country (which mean I'll lost my asylum status) or getting a divorce. No, I don't want it. I love him too much to get a divorce.
Someone also suggested me to seek help from congressman. My question here is if there is any other way to get him here to stay?
I really appreciate any comments from you. Thank you so much and please wish me luck.