nireehamdi
Registered Users (C)
I am the US citizen, my spouse and I were married in 2002. We completed
the AOS interview and have the conditional residency status changed to
permanent residency status in Nov. 2005. He would like to get his US
citizenship. However, there are some problems in marriage and I am not sure
that we will complete at this time. I am trying to hang in there so we can
complete, but it takes "Two to Tango". He does not do anything towards
his marriage in the way of responsibilities, he only "wants the card". He has
a girl-friend (who is also international), he does not live at home, eat at home, or anything. He leaves his clothes at home, just for "looks" I assume. I am closing out "My" bank account with his name on it. I have asked him to
put my name on his bank account, he has not. So, he wants, wants, but
does not want to "do". This is not fair. In the meantime, in 'his wants"...
his 3X tax return done jointly. I just don't feel "any obligation to him" to do
this. I don't think filing separately will affect his status. So, I would like to
know, should be get a "new job"...can he change to H1 status? I am going to file for divorce, siting adultery and abandonment (which can be proven)...
we did not start "out ugly"....and I'm hurt that he has chosen "the ugliness
route". In the long run, I feel this is going to be something that I regret
and that he will regret in his life if we do not complete. I have given, given
and given. But everything in life has to be a two way street I believe. I
also believe that if I do not file the I751 and N400.....I don't think he will
be able to prove that he did not marry to circumvent immigration laws. I
married him because I loved him and cared for him. Through all of this
ugliness, I still do. ACtually, I know what I should do....but because he
has hurt me and been ugly to me....I should return the ugliness and whatever. I have had an excellent teacher. I have also told him, that
if no one else knows that God knows his actions to me, and that "what goes around comes around". I may not see it...but it will happen to him. He
will deserve it.
So...can he change status from marriage based AOS to perm residency and citizenship.... to H1 Visa? Other comments.
the AOS interview and have the conditional residency status changed to
permanent residency status in Nov. 2005. He would like to get his US
citizenship. However, there are some problems in marriage and I am not sure
that we will complete at this time. I am trying to hang in there so we can
complete, but it takes "Two to Tango". He does not do anything towards
his marriage in the way of responsibilities, he only "wants the card". He has
a girl-friend (who is also international), he does not live at home, eat at home, or anything. He leaves his clothes at home, just for "looks" I assume. I am closing out "My" bank account with his name on it. I have asked him to
put my name on his bank account, he has not. So, he wants, wants, but
does not want to "do". This is not fair. In the meantime, in 'his wants"...
his 3X tax return done jointly. I just don't feel "any obligation to him" to do
this. I don't think filing separately will affect his status. So, I would like to
know, should be get a "new job"...can he change to H1 status? I am going to file for divorce, siting adultery and abandonment (which can be proven)...
we did not start "out ugly"....and I'm hurt that he has chosen "the ugliness
route". In the long run, I feel this is going to be something that I regret
and that he will regret in his life if we do not complete. I have given, given
and given. But everything in life has to be a two way street I believe. I
also believe that if I do not file the I751 and N400.....I don't think he will
be able to prove that he did not marry to circumvent immigration laws. I
married him because I loved him and cared for him. Through all of this
ugliness, I still do. ACtually, I know what I should do....but because he
has hurt me and been ugly to me....I should return the ugliness and whatever. I have had an excellent teacher. I have also told him, that
if no one else knows that God knows his actions to me, and that "what goes around comes around". I may not see it...but it will happen to him. He
will deserve it.
So...can he change status from marriage based AOS to perm residency and citizenship.... to H1 Visa? Other comments.