came to the states in 1996 on b2 tourist visa I met my wife in 1997 my wife wasn't a usa citizen at that time she had a green card she give birh to my son in 1999 and we got married in 2000 our marriage life fell apart after I find out she cheat on me. we got separated in 2001,, she took my son and went to live with this guy I was all broken up after about a year I got a call from the police telling me to come to pick up my son because my wife got arrested apparently she had a fight with this guy and she broke some stuff in is house and he called the police on her all that happened in 2002 a day after she got arrested she call me from jail and ask me to post a bail for her and that's what I did she got released and she beg me for my forgiveness I forgive her and she moved to my house after year we been together I decided I don't have any love for her and ask her to get separated we got separated and she moved to west coast ( I live in the east coast) she got her citizenship in the end of 2004 we always stayed good friends and we never got divorce she offer me to help me to get my green card.. I fly to the west coast almost every two month to visit my kid so I been there last year she fill up the papers for me and 2 days ago I got my interview to June 14th... we had allot of problems in our married life she is very hard person to deal with.. and now she stub me in my back she saying she wont show up to this interview with me and she wants to get divorce!!! I don't know what to do next should I go to this interview by my self should I cancel this interview I don't want to leave the state I love my kid so much I also find out that she met somebody and she is planning to get married with him that's why she wants the divorce any advice will be appreciated