Hello: Johnny
Please help me!!!!
Let me tell you about my situation:
I have a police report that says this:
I received a domestic violence in progress call,the call stated a female was being beaten by a male,
I contacted the suspect in his vehicle and asked him what was going on. He told me he and the victim(his live in girlfriend of 3 months) had been at schooner's drinking.
He say the victim kissing another man while dancing. The two left schooners arguing about the incident. The suspect added that during the ride home, he slapped the victim once in the face and pulled her hair.
Deputy turrill arrived at the scene. interviewed the victim who relayed to him the same story about schooners, however, she said that during the ride home, the suspect punched her, 2 or 3 times, in the face with his fists,and pulled her hair. she showed me the inside of her lower lip wich was cut from the punches.
based on the above I placed the suspect under arrest for 273.5(A)PC
The suspect and victim both agree alcohol played a large part in the incident, and both deny any past history of domestic violence. The victim refused medical treatment, and E.P.P, and All domestic violence info.
Johnny, this happen in 2001 we were living together only.
He went out of jail 2 days later, he did community service and classes of anger management,
when he finishes those it was the last day in court, same day, he went to an office in the same building and pay a fee and received a court record,
where it says:
the dates he appeared in court, charges he had, date when case was filed, number of case and what was order to him in court.
in the last day he went was written:
Probation is ordered terminated, plea of guilty or conviction is set aside. A plea of not guilty is entered. case is dismissed pursuant to seccion 1203.4 penal code.
this record is from 10/5/01 (the day of the incident) to 1/13/03 the last day he went to court.
we continue living together and he never hurt me physically again, in 2003 we moved to another city,lived in a trailer, we were living out of an SSI money that he was receiving and some other money from breeding some dogs that he had.
in 2005 January, He started making a lot of money by buying and selling vacant land
he became so greedy, I found 7 properties out of the 12 that he has sold.
the worked that I did was, that I found vacant land in the internet, he bought them with the money of a lender, then he sold them kept the profit around 15,000 per property.
one month later, February 2005, I told him to put my name in the properties, and He said no, I will give you 10% but have sex with another men I want to see you, do it like 2 times.
I did not do it and he did not gave what he promised, but I continue finding the properties thinking that he will give me at least 10%,
but He did buy it and kept all the profits, I was so mad because of that and my sex drive was decreasing, also he asked me very often to have anal sex, which I did not do it.
the months pass by I found more properties, the last ones, that I found him, he bought them, put my name in them too, he gave half of the profits.
that was in november two months ago, and then He said, that's it, I did not marry you to share my money
he said you are not a wife, because a wife do not deny herself sexually to the husband.
a friend of him of costa rica, invited my husband, he went for the first time from the 9th to the 19th. there the niece of this "friend" became his lover,and my husband came and said to me that found a girl that does what he is looking in bed. and besides he loves costa rica and will buy a property there, to move there, and a said: what about me? he said leave the house, look for job, and I felt so bad!! and right now I feel the same or worst!
I said to him, all that I helped you and you kept the house and properties and you just want to get rid of me as If I was an animal or something worse?
he entered a petition for divorce 2 months after we got married. we got married april 2003, petition entered june 2003, and I dont have any right to fight for anything legaly because after a petition was filed, I only had 30 days to respond, I did not do it, because there were not properties to divide at that time.
this past December 2005 he went and enter the final divorce.
he sent the i-130 petition in april 2004 and was approved november 2004. and because I entered here with no visa, my interview will be in Juarez, but first he needed to sent the affadivit of support to NVC and he did not do it. instead he went and filed the divorced.
If he would have sent the affidavit of support for me, I would have had the interview in Juarez-Mexico
and there I will apply for the waiver 601, and my husband that suffered panick attacks will write the letter of hardship for me to return to the USA.
I'm so alone, I need Psychological help!! . I feel used and abused for him, he said I don't worth nothing that in bed I'm worthless, because he wants sex everyday, most of the time anal sex and when he does not have it, he gets mad at me. and also said that I needed to be grateful that he is helping me with the immigration papers, and that is why he was married with me and that I want to steal his money.
but I think I helped a lot.
I feel so traumatized!, that I don't know how to think well, I need help soon, I feet so terrible!!
He said yesterday that he wants to help me, but he said that I have to leave the house and rent some place else,
because he will bring either that woman of costa rica or other woman to the house and he does not want me to cause him any problem.
he said to me: leave the house and I will marry you again, I divorced you because you are not worth it as a wife for me. you want my money, but you don't what have sex with me, or if you want to stay he said: Ok!!, don't sleep with men, ok!! but I want sex everyday and like twice a month anal sex!! Ah! and I will not buy properties with you any more, I will stay married only for the papers. Also I will get more women once in a while!
Johnny what do you think of this proposal,? I don't see my life with out him, but I don't know, give an advice!!
then he said: first we need to make a prenuptial agreement, and sign me like 10 quit claim deeds, then we file again the case with the immigracion.I'm doing you a big favor!, I don't have to do it, but I want to help you! he told me this yesterday.
Johnny, if I marry him again and send over again everything.,in Juarez or when I filed the i-130 again, the USCIS will see another petition with the same husband, and different date of marriage,
will I have a lot of problems with them because of that? they will asked me why he divorced me ? and why I married again with him? what am I going to answer to them?
or I better leave everything as it is, and send the affidavit like nothing happened, and I go to Juarez and send the waiver 601, and in Juarez will they found out that he divorced me?
also when I apply for the citizenship, will they found out and deny it, because in Juarez I did not said I was divorced? I know that I can not say in Juarez that I'm divorced because for the waiver 601, I need the hardship letter of my husband, not my exhusband, saying that he is sick and needs me with him!.what do you think, Johnny?
what do I need to do?
or instead, can I apply for vawa? you said that because I'm divorced, it has to be ended because of abuse?
I think was abused, but how do I proved it?
also, in case you think I can apply for vawa,
what will be the procedure, If I'm here ilegally?
I will be ilegally until the petition is approved?
how long does it take for the petition to be approved?
with the money that I had I bought a vacant land,
because I have this asset, I can apply for a work permit, or I need to be very poor with no money to receive work permit with the petition of vawa?
because even that I have this,to apply for vawa, I will leave the house and I need money to rent a place and buy food and live and I have some money, but in some 5 months I won't have and I will need to get a job. can I apply for a work permit even If I have this asset, that I paid 25,000 for it.?
Do you recommend me to marry him again, or apply for vawa?
as your read the police report is says that we were drinking and the incident was that I kissed another man.
do you think better not send the police report with the petition for vawa, I want to send only the record that he got the last day he went to court?,
because there it says number or case, of what he had beed accused, and that he made anger manegement classes and community service.
I don't have pictures of wedding nor anything from year 2001,2002,2003 and 2004 as proof of bona fide, will there be a problem? but I have proofs of last year 2005, and some pics of last year.
Also if I apply for vawa, because the petition for divorce was entered 2 months after marriage, will that be a problem? or the immigration does not have to know?
I'm 30. and my husband is 63 but looks of 45.
do you think the age will be a problem in my petition for vawa? but we lived together for 4 years already.
you think,I need to send the police report, even it says what it says,?
I'm afraid the immigration thinks that I don't deserve the papers because it says there that we drunk and that I kissed other man. what do you think of the report?
thank you so much JohnnyCash
Please e mail me soon.
Doloresno@univision.com
Please help me!!!!
Let me tell you about my situation:
I have a police report that says this:
I received a domestic violence in progress call,the call stated a female was being beaten by a male,
I contacted the suspect in his vehicle and asked him what was going on. He told me he and the victim(his live in girlfriend of 3 months) had been at schooner's drinking.
He say the victim kissing another man while dancing. The two left schooners arguing about the incident. The suspect added that during the ride home, he slapped the victim once in the face and pulled her hair.
Deputy turrill arrived at the scene. interviewed the victim who relayed to him the same story about schooners, however, she said that during the ride home, the suspect punched her, 2 or 3 times, in the face with his fists,and pulled her hair. she showed me the inside of her lower lip wich was cut from the punches.
based on the above I placed the suspect under arrest for 273.5(A)PC
The suspect and victim both agree alcohol played a large part in the incident, and both deny any past history of domestic violence. The victim refused medical treatment, and E.P.P, and All domestic violence info.
Johnny, this happen in 2001 we were living together only.
He went out of jail 2 days later, he did community service and classes of anger management,
when he finishes those it was the last day in court, same day, he went to an office in the same building and pay a fee and received a court record,
where it says:
the dates he appeared in court, charges he had, date when case was filed, number of case and what was order to him in court.
in the last day he went was written:
Probation is ordered terminated, plea of guilty or conviction is set aside. A plea of not guilty is entered. case is dismissed pursuant to seccion 1203.4 penal code.
this record is from 10/5/01 (the day of the incident) to 1/13/03 the last day he went to court.
we continue living together and he never hurt me physically again, in 2003 we moved to another city,lived in a trailer, we were living out of an SSI money that he was receiving and some other money from breeding some dogs that he had.
in 2005 January, He started making a lot of money by buying and selling vacant land
he became so greedy, I found 7 properties out of the 12 that he has sold.
the worked that I did was, that I found vacant land in the internet, he bought them with the money of a lender, then he sold them kept the profit around 15,000 per property.
one month later, February 2005, I told him to put my name in the properties, and He said no, I will give you 10% but have sex with another men I want to see you, do it like 2 times.
I did not do it and he did not gave what he promised, but I continue finding the properties thinking that he will give me at least 10%,
but He did buy it and kept all the profits, I was so mad because of that and my sex drive was decreasing, also he asked me very often to have anal sex, which I did not do it.
the months pass by I found more properties, the last ones, that I found him, he bought them, put my name in them too, he gave half of the profits.
that was in november two months ago, and then He said, that's it, I did not marry you to share my money
he said you are not a wife, because a wife do not deny herself sexually to the husband.
a friend of him of costa rica, invited my husband, he went for the first time from the 9th to the 19th. there the niece of this "friend" became his lover,and my husband came and said to me that found a girl that does what he is looking in bed. and besides he loves costa rica and will buy a property there, to move there, and a said: what about me? he said leave the house, look for job, and I felt so bad!! and right now I feel the same or worst!
I said to him, all that I helped you and you kept the house and properties and you just want to get rid of me as If I was an animal or something worse?
he entered a petition for divorce 2 months after we got married. we got married april 2003, petition entered june 2003, and I dont have any right to fight for anything legaly because after a petition was filed, I only had 30 days to respond, I did not do it, because there were not properties to divide at that time.
this past December 2005 he went and enter the final divorce.
he sent the i-130 petition in april 2004 and was approved november 2004. and because I entered here with no visa, my interview will be in Juarez, but first he needed to sent the affadivit of support to NVC and he did not do it. instead he went and filed the divorced.
If he would have sent the affidavit of support for me, I would have had the interview in Juarez-Mexico
and there I will apply for the waiver 601, and my husband that suffered panick attacks will write the letter of hardship for me to return to the USA.
I'm so alone, I need Psychological help!! . I feel used and abused for him, he said I don't worth nothing that in bed I'm worthless, because he wants sex everyday, most of the time anal sex and when he does not have it, he gets mad at me. and also said that I needed to be grateful that he is helping me with the immigration papers, and that is why he was married with me and that I want to steal his money.
but I think I helped a lot.
I feel so traumatized!, that I don't know how to think well, I need help soon, I feet so terrible!!
He said yesterday that he wants to help me, but he said that I have to leave the house and rent some place else,
because he will bring either that woman of costa rica or other woman to the house and he does not want me to cause him any problem.
he said to me: leave the house and I will marry you again, I divorced you because you are not worth it as a wife for me. you want my money, but you don't what have sex with me, or if you want to stay he said: Ok!!, don't sleep with men, ok!! but I want sex everyday and like twice a month anal sex!! Ah! and I will not buy properties with you any more, I will stay married only for the papers. Also I will get more women once in a while!
Johnny what do you think of this proposal,? I don't see my life with out him, but I don't know, give an advice!!
then he said: first we need to make a prenuptial agreement, and sign me like 10 quit claim deeds, then we file again the case with the immigracion.I'm doing you a big favor!, I don't have to do it, but I want to help you! he told me this yesterday.
Johnny, if I marry him again and send over again everything.,in Juarez or when I filed the i-130 again, the USCIS will see another petition with the same husband, and different date of marriage,
will I have a lot of problems with them because of that? they will asked me why he divorced me ? and why I married again with him? what am I going to answer to them?
or I better leave everything as it is, and send the affidavit like nothing happened, and I go to Juarez and send the waiver 601, and in Juarez will they found out that he divorced me?
also when I apply for the citizenship, will they found out and deny it, because in Juarez I did not said I was divorced? I know that I can not say in Juarez that I'm divorced because for the waiver 601, I need the hardship letter of my husband, not my exhusband, saying that he is sick and needs me with him!.what do you think, Johnny?
what do I need to do?
or instead, can I apply for vawa? you said that because I'm divorced, it has to be ended because of abuse?
I think was abused, but how do I proved it?
also, in case you think I can apply for vawa,
what will be the procedure, If I'm here ilegally?
I will be ilegally until the petition is approved?
how long does it take for the petition to be approved?
with the money that I had I bought a vacant land,
because I have this asset, I can apply for a work permit, or I need to be very poor with no money to receive work permit with the petition of vawa?
because even that I have this,to apply for vawa, I will leave the house and I need money to rent a place and buy food and live and I have some money, but in some 5 months I won't have and I will need to get a job. can I apply for a work permit even If I have this asset, that I paid 25,000 for it.?
Do you recommend me to marry him again, or apply for vawa?
as your read the police report is says that we were drinking and the incident was that I kissed another man.
do you think better not send the police report with the petition for vawa, I want to send only the record that he got the last day he went to court?,
because there it says number or case, of what he had beed accused, and that he made anger manegement classes and community service.
I don't have pictures of wedding nor anything from year 2001,2002,2003 and 2004 as proof of bona fide, will there be a problem? but I have proofs of last year 2005, and some pics of last year.
Also if I apply for vawa, because the petition for divorce was entered 2 months after marriage, will that be a problem? or the immigration does not have to know?
I'm 30. and my husband is 63 but looks of 45.
do you think the age will be a problem in my petition for vawa? but we lived together for 4 years already.
you think,I need to send the police report, even it says what it says,?
I'm afraid the immigration thinks that I don't deserve the papers because it says there that we drunk and that I kissed other man. what do you think of the report?
thank you so much JohnnyCash
Please e mail me soon.
Doloresno@univision.com