I am filling an I-751 waiver form because I entered into the marriage in good faith, but the marriage was terminated through a divorce.
Indeed, I got married to ex wife on June 20th, 2008 and I received a temporary green card on January 28th, 2009. At the beginning of 2009, my ex-wife was unemployed but she found a job where she was fired after working 2 weeks. We had a saving account trough us bank that had a goal to help us find an apartment because we were still living with two peoples as roommates. We started using our saving and money from my job to pay different bills. I managed to get a second full time job but with graveyard shift. Therefore, school and my two jobs, I was barely at home and things started changing towards bad ways in our marriage.
Before starting dating my ex-wife, she was involved with another person who was arrested for possession of illegal substance. She told me that he was calling him at first I did not see any inconvenient for that but after a month receiving calls from him I asked her to let him know that he should stop calling her and she should be focused on looking for a job. Since having two jobs and going to school full was not easy for me. I fell sick and I was transported to the ER. Over there, they asked me to get some rest but I could not stop because we need money in order to move out and to pay our bills. One of my roommates told me that my ex-wife every night when I left for work she was also leaving the apartment. I confronted her about what my roommates were saying and she finally agreed to what my roommates were saying about her going out every night.
After these events, she decided to move out because she did not like the atmosphere full of tension at in the apartment. She knew that we did not have enough save to get an apartment and every property owner was asking us at least for three months of rent as deposit. I decided to let her go to her parents’ house but that did not arrange anything. She stayed with her parents for few weeks and she left their house. Her mother did not want her to stay at their place anymore because she was spending most of time outside even at nighttime. I started being suspicion about her activities when I received a phone bill from at&t about $900.00 on our family plan. When I checked the bill, there were random numbers calling her only at night. I found that she was giving a car a phone to one of her ex who was selling drugs. I cut the cell phone lines while I was paying off the bill and I told her that I did want to be with her anymore that she would need to change her behavior and that I would start divorce process. She emptied our UsBank’s account. She let me with some huge fees because she over drafted the account several times. Two weeks later, I received a call from jail asking me if I knew my wife and if I wanted to be the one who would pick her up from jail. She was in jail because she tried to cash a fraudulent check at a casino and they called the police on her. I was shocked but I agreed to take her again hoping that she finally understood few things in life.
We agreed to work our relationship out again. We took an appointment with a counselor and we went for the first appointment. We took another appointment but she did not show up instead I received a text message from her telling me that she had some unprotected sexual act when she was at her parents’ house and she got a STD, herpes, from that relation. Automatically, me trusting her I got that same STD and Now I have to take some medication if I want to have any type relation with others. From there, I stopped having any contact and I did not want to hear about her anymore. I have finalized the divorce on June 24th, 2010
What are my chances to get approved?
Indeed, I got married to ex wife on June 20th, 2008 and I received a temporary green card on January 28th, 2009. At the beginning of 2009, my ex-wife was unemployed but she found a job where she was fired after working 2 weeks. We had a saving account trough us bank that had a goal to help us find an apartment because we were still living with two peoples as roommates. We started using our saving and money from my job to pay different bills. I managed to get a second full time job but with graveyard shift. Therefore, school and my two jobs, I was barely at home and things started changing towards bad ways in our marriage.
Before starting dating my ex-wife, she was involved with another person who was arrested for possession of illegal substance. She told me that he was calling him at first I did not see any inconvenient for that but after a month receiving calls from him I asked her to let him know that he should stop calling her and she should be focused on looking for a job. Since having two jobs and going to school full was not easy for me. I fell sick and I was transported to the ER. Over there, they asked me to get some rest but I could not stop because we need money in order to move out and to pay our bills. One of my roommates told me that my ex-wife every night when I left for work she was also leaving the apartment. I confronted her about what my roommates were saying and she finally agreed to what my roommates were saying about her going out every night.
After these events, she decided to move out because she did not like the atmosphere full of tension at in the apartment. She knew that we did not have enough save to get an apartment and every property owner was asking us at least for three months of rent as deposit. I decided to let her go to her parents’ house but that did not arrange anything. She stayed with her parents for few weeks and she left their house. Her mother did not want her to stay at their place anymore because she was spending most of time outside even at nighttime. I started being suspicion about her activities when I received a phone bill from at&t about $900.00 on our family plan. When I checked the bill, there were random numbers calling her only at night. I found that she was giving a car a phone to one of her ex who was selling drugs. I cut the cell phone lines while I was paying off the bill and I told her that I did want to be with her anymore that she would need to change her behavior and that I would start divorce process. She emptied our UsBank’s account. She let me with some huge fees because she over drafted the account several times. Two weeks later, I received a call from jail asking me if I knew my wife and if I wanted to be the one who would pick her up from jail. She was in jail because she tried to cash a fraudulent check at a casino and they called the police on her. I was shocked but I agreed to take her again hoping that she finally understood few things in life.
We agreed to work our relationship out again. We took an appointment with a counselor and we went for the first appointment. We took another appointment but she did not show up instead I received a text message from her telling me that she had some unprotected sexual act when she was at her parents’ house and she got a STD, herpes, from that relation. Automatically, me trusting her I got that same STD and Now I have to take some medication if I want to have any type relation with others. From there, I stopped having any contact and I did not want to hear about her anymore. I have finalized the divorce on June 24th, 2010
What are my chances to get approved?
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