I-751 waiver, after divorce (need advice)

lil84

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Hi, i live in NYC. I got married on american citizen, in may 2006. I got my conditional green card in may 2007. But the things didnt go well, and we were fighting all the time, one day he just brought me divorce papers...and told me to leave. I didnt sign them, because i didnt want to divorce him , i loved him, but i had to leave ( i left on february 2008). So he start filling divorce byhimself. I called him to ask what,s going on with the divorce , but he never told me anything. I never recieved anything from the court. Just on day in September 2008 i called him and he told me that we are divorced already. He told in the court that i abandoned him for more than 1 year. Anyway, he lied, just to get divorce fast, thats how it works in NY.
After that i filled I-751 waiver ( March 2009) based on bona fide marriage that ended with divorce. My problem was that i didnt have enoughh evidence. I just joint account, affidavits from friends, some letters and reciepts. We didnt have utilitty bills, insurance or lease, because we used to live with his parents and everything was on his mother's name...
So, they send me letter from immigration(November 2009) that i need to send them more evidence...the only thing i could get is the letter from my ex-husband, saying that we lived together as husband and wife in that address at that time...
Also, i went for my biometrics on June 2009.
And on January 2010 i recieved letter to come to appointment, for the interwiev on may 6th 2010 (manhattan office) with my ex-husbent. I still dont understand why he has to come.... But i told him and he said he will come.
So now , i worry a lot, because i dont have enough evidence... and the other thing, i am 6 months pregnant from my boyfriend...
I just keep thinking about worst that can happen,... they can deport me. And if they decide to do it, will they look for me?
I hired a lawyer to help me file the papers and i spent a lot of money, and the work she did i could do it myself... now she is telling me i have to go to this interwiev with lawyer , and it cost $1200...But do i really need a laweyr there, i dont think so, anyway they will ask questions to me not to my lawyer...She just wants more money from me..
I got married because i loved him, and wanted to build a familly with him, but he didnt want kids, he didnt want to many responsibilities, thats why we started fighting... I always worked and payed my taxes, i didnt have any crimminal records...i have my life here, i dont want to leave...
If anyone have experience with I-751 waiver, and can give me advice in this situation, it would be really appreciated. Thank you
 
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