Same situation here...But wish us the BEST LUCK!!!
Hi there, feel sorry for your story. But, you are not alone!!!
I'm in NYC, 30 months past from today for my I-485 application. I just got back from USCIS this morning. Found out that my case was DENIED without any reason. I did not move in the past 30 months and did not receive any letter or notice. I'm pissed actually.
I spoke to an immigration officer this morning, she said my case was denied in Sep 2005. I did submit a I-485 application and I-765 application at the same time back on 11/3/2003.
She never mentioned about reopen the case. Well, she sugguested me to file everything again. Means what I paid in 2003 was flying in the wind now, and the time I spent on it for 2.5 years was useless. The fee is increasing, we must pay more, but don't know what is waiting for us, maybe another denial.
Therefore, I don't sugguest you to attend your sister's wedding if you can not manage it. I was planning my trip for Sep too, until the immigration officer said I can not come back if my case is denied, even though I have an authorized parole for alien. The funniest part was, she found I had 2 Alien numbers in her system.
I'm having my hardest time now. Crying out for help, just like you, don't know where to start. I hate waiting especially this kind of waiting, it's really wasting time and money. But what else we can do?! I guess that's all we can do.
I asked her if it's better for me to get an attorney, she said that's useless. She explained that USCIS just updated the internal computer system, that's why she could only see I had 2 alien numbers and my denied case status. She sent me to room 1-120 on the first floor, the forms room. You need to get a form: G-639 in order to get a reason why they denied your case, that's how it works with NRC - National Records Center. After they closed your case, that's where your paperworks goes to.
The end, I'm still very upset about her. Because she was the one who assisted me in March 06. By that time my case was already denied but I didn't know it. I was asking about my case status the other day, she was like go away, all you need to do is to wait. I caught her this time, I told her she's the one who's not helpful, so she was like to make it up, but still, talking like a boss.
Contact me for anything. Could we keep each other updated here? Don't waste your time and money on lawyers, they don't know what to do either. I need to get a denial reason from them. Try to find the form online. Here ya go, I found it:
http://www.uscis.gov/graphics/formsfee/forms/g-639.htm