I-130 (f-4) Help!!!

[Bella Blues]

A little harsh

Good evening everyone,

I was just reading this thread and I just feel like some of you are being a little too harsh on ankitkiko which is very anti-American. When I read his post I didn't feel like he hated the US or have some grudge against the US, I didn't get that vibe at all. I thought he was just a little upset over the loooong wait of his petition, which is understandable. I know you guys have already received your green cards or naturalization, but there are still many of us who are still waiting and perhaps you've forgotten how frustrating it is. He (or she) also had to contend with the murder of his father, which is really sad, he is still probably trying to get over that. Anyway, there are other more hateful posters than him, those posters that come here and say illegal immigrants are a burden on the US and wish that the Dream Act would never pass, and other negative things like that. Those are the people who are really ignorant and hateful. Ankitkiko doesn't seem to be one of them, for me, he is like me, a hopeful immigrant just waiting...waiting...

 

[Suzy977]

And when I was hoping that we've closed this matter:

Good evening everyone,

I was just reading this thread and I just feel like some of you are being a little too harsh on ankitkiko which is very anti-American. When I read his post I didn't feel like he hated the US or have some grudge against the US, I didn't get that vibe at all. I thought he was just a little upset over the loooong wait of his petition, which is understandable. I know you guys have already received your green cards or naturalization, but there are still many of us who are still waiting and perhaps you've forgotten how frustrating it is. He (or she) also had to contend with the murder of his father, which is really sad, he is still probably trying to get over that. Anyway, there are other more hateful posters than him, those posters that come here and say illegal immigrants are a burden on the US and wish that the Dream Act would never pass, and other negative things like that. Those are the people who are really ignorant and hateful. Ankitkiko doesn't seem to be one of them, for me, he is like me, a hopeful immigrant just waiting...waiting...

Maybe you can explain the next paragraph:

Originally Posted by ankitkiko
actually theres nothing worth in united states, ppl just wanna come here because its safe, and u get GREEN, lots n lots of GREEN, and its gud. otherwise usa sucks ass.

What is your interpretation of the above paragraph? Could you "lecture" us how to construe that
What "vibe" do you get when you read those lines? Please, be so kind and enlighten us, maybe we understood it wrong.

On the other hand, if you read my post...

Myself for example, I had to wait 8.5 for my Green Card, and another 7+ for my citizenship, a total of 15+ years
USCIS sucks, and I was so angry agaist this institution, but I never said, or thought, something bad about the US, and I'll never will.

...you may understand that I didn't get a free ride with USCIS and I'll never forget the frustration of the past 15+ years.

But once and forever: USA is not USCIS, and USCIS is not representative for USA, and your, his, mine, OUR frustration with USCIS doesn't have anything to do with this great country.

P.S.
You want another personal example:

When I left my old country I left behind my son, 8 months old. Because of USCIS (INS) I've never seen my son since! Now he's almost 16 years old and we don't know each other. It's not USA's fault, nobody brought me here and keept me here by force, but USCIS screwed up my file and my ex-spouse lost patience and divorced me, and in retaliation never let me see my son. Life sucks? Yes. USCIS sucks? YES, BIG TIME!
But USA is my country, the country I love and I'll never let anybody to bad mouth it.

 

[cherr1980]

Good evening everyone,

" Anyway, there are other more hateful posters than him, those posters that come here and say illegal immigrants are a burden on the US and wish that the Dream Act would never pass, and other negative things like that. Those are the people who are really ignorant and hateful. Ankitkiko doesn't seem to be one of them, for me, he is like me, a hopeful immigrant just waiting...waiting...

Uhmmm...

Make a little search and you find out what are the issues with that law, actually one of the problems is that is not fair for everybody. If they want to have a law, should be fair but for ALL. I really won't get on the Dream Act thing, but I have to say for me is simple, is not fair for the entire immigrant community who is waiting outside the US.
Sorry, but that is not "hate" that is be "FAIR". If I pay, pay for a visa, follow the process and the law, why you can't do it? And please don't give me the speech of "because they are poor"...that is the most wonderful excuse used since the Stone Age, since I born I never carry the Rockefeller, neither Trump last name with me. People forget that there is thousand of people waiting in their countries going through Consular Processing by the LEGAL way, separte several years from their love ones but you know, they can say, hey! I did it in the legal way, I respect the laws as I wanted that other people respect it in your own country right?. And that is why the immigrant community is so divided, because you see that why you love of this country like "fair, respect and what you work you earn" others want to do the same "juega vivo (easy play)" in this country.

I am agree that unfortunately because some of them, there are others who put like ALL immigrants are like that. And I know that they are people who are ignorants that never get out of their bubble in years and don't know that there is an entire world full of energy, rich in culture and wishes.

Those are my 2 cents for today...

 

[ankitkiko]

You want another personal example:

When I left my old country I left behind my son, 8 months old. Because of USCIS (INS) I've never seen my son since! Now he's almost 16 years old and we don't know each other. It's not USA's fault, nobody brought me here and keept me here by force, but USCIS screwed up my file and my ex-spouse lost patience and divorced me, and in retaliation never let me see my son. Life sucks? Yes. USCIS sucks? YES, BIG TIME!
But USA is my country, the country I love and I'll never let anybody to bad mouth it.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]


and then even after ive apologized for ur mistake of not reading it properly and my mistake of not proof reading wht i wrote, u still wanna bitch about it.

 

[Suzy977]

and then even after ive apologized for ur mistake of not reading it properly and my mistake of not proof reading wht i wrote, u still wanna bitch about it.

First of all the answer wasn't for you, but for your "public defender" who came here to lecture us about nothing...

For the last time, if you think you want to apologize let it the way it is.

If you want to keep insulting just say it clearly (not in this B.S. codified language; you misspelled 90% of the words, but bitch you know how to spell, you son of a bitch!) and I promise I'll give you an answer that will make you cry all the way to Kenya...and back

 

[lakelady]

hahahah Suzy, you rock!

 

[ankitkiko]

yeah whatever, just because u dont know how 2 talk with sms doesnt mean u can tlk 2 me tht way, i had apolozied before 2 times infact so ud let go, but all u do is keep on coming and thts y i had 2 say stop bitching about it. and i didnt call u a bitch, i said stop bitching, and now again u dont read properly and just talk rubbish. , u have 2 let it go, u started it, i was just asking a question and u didnt have an answer but u had to BITCH about it. so U leave it , and ill b happy 2 leave it 2.

 

[Suzy977]

yeah whatever, just because u dont know how 2 talk with sms doesnt mean u can tlk 2 me tht way, i had apolozied before 2 times infact so ud let go, but all u do is keep on coming and thts y i had 2 say stop bitching about it. and i didnt call u a bitch, i said stop bitching, and now again u dont read properly and just talk rubbish. , u have 2 let it go, u started it, i was just asking a question and u didnt have an answer but u had to BITCH about it. so U leave it , and ill b happy 2 leave it 2.

It's obvious that you IQ is less than the square root* of my dog's IQ, but make an effort and try to understand what I'm saying here.

I've never said that you called me bitch, but saying that I'm bitching is insulting and I won't tolerate that, I know that you heard that at home when people were addressing to that bitch who raised you, but don't try to bring you shit attitude here in this public forum.

My post #22, the one you're reffering to, was addressed to the other illegal moron, "Bella Blues" not to you, stupid

Unbelievable, but I still consider my answer, a friendly answer, and since you don't have any business in this forum, get lost before it gets ugly.

P.S.1 FYI Square root* is not a tree root with a square section

P.S.2 Don't send me Private Messages anymore!

 

[Bella Blues]

Just an opinion

What is your interpretation of the above paragraph? Could you "lecture" us how to construe that
What "vibe" do you get when you read those lines? Please, be so kind and enlighten us, maybe we understood it wrong.

First of all, I was not lecturing anyone. What I wrote was just my opinion, I didn't say we should all feel the same way as I did, I just said that's the vibe I got from reading his post. Well, to answer your question, I thought he said "usa sucks" in the same manner that people say "oh, my life sucks" or "this job sucks" it's just an expression, especially since he seems like he's just a kid.

P.S.
When I left my old country I left behind my son, 8 months old. Because of USCIS (INS) I've never seen my son since! Now he's almost 16 years old and we don't know each other. It's not USA's fault, nobody brought me here and keept me here by force, but USCIS screwed up my file and my ex-spouse lost patience and divorced me, and in retaliation never let me see my son. Life sucks? Yes. USCIS sucks? YES, BIG TIME!
But USA is my country, the country I love and I'll never let anybody to bad mouth it.[/QUOTE]

I'm sorry about your son.