If you look at the USCIS time lines for sponsorship by siblings, they're now processing applications from 1999 to 2001. So you would have quite a long wait. And this is only after your brother becomes a USC.
I am by no means an expert on marriage or divorce law, but I doubt not wanting to have a baby and not going to the hospital with you qualifies as abuse. He might be an a$$hole, sure, but a$$hole does not automatically mean abusive.
I am by no means an expert on marriage or divorce law, but I doubt not wanting to have a baby and not going to the hospital with you qualifies as abuse. He might be an a$$hole, sure, but a$$hole does not automatically mean abusive.