H1b or not to be !
Try to stay away from a J1 visa for graduate medical education if at all possible. There is no way to get out of the home residency requirement except through 3yr service in an underserved location or through the VA. The usual 'no-objection' statement way of getting out of the home residency requirement is not available for physicians. And forget about an 'extreme hardship' waiver, having to go home is not a hardship in their eyes.
If you have a GC cooking, you have more reasons to stay away from the J1 for your wife. (actually, if you enter your name in the dependents portion of the J1 forms, YOU will be subject to the HRR as well.)
If you are still bent on screwing your life up with a J1, here is the way to get it done:
-- contact the department of health of your home country to provide you with a letter that has the verbatim text required by the department of state. Be sure that the office of the department of health you are talking to is indeed the one that ECFMG has on file for this country. (In my case the street address changed creating a mess. Through intervention of my countries consulate I managed to get this straightened out)
-- go on the
www.ecfmg.org website and look for the 'exchange visitor sponsorship program' link (EVSP). It will tell you what steps you have to go through to get sponsorship.
-- print out the application forms and fill them out. Have the 'designated program representative' at your wifes hospital sign the respective portion of the form and enter the necessary program and hospital ID numbers.
-- send the forms to ECFMG along with I believe a $200 check.
-- wait 10 days to 3 months (10 days in december 3 months in march).
-- ECFMG will send a form called DS2091 (used to be IAP66) to the hospitals 'designated program representative'. You can pick it up there. ECFMG also enters your wife into SEVIS.
-- Either apply for change of status with INS or go to your home country and apply for a J1 visa for your wife using the DS2091 form. In addition you will need another letter from your program attesting that she is 'in good standing' with the program.
-- the second your wifes status is changed to 'graduate medical education J1', either through COS or by entering on the visa, she is doomed. For the next 6-10 years she is effectively excluded from taking advantage of all of the usual ways of immigration (work family amnesty). No soup for you.
To come back to your questions:
> Let imagine I and my wife have a kid by then will my wife
> elgible to convert her J1 visa to GC?.
Positively absolutely NO. They don't give a s__ whether you and your children are citizens by then, they also don't care whether your wife makes 1/2 mil$ p.a. by then, all that counts is the J1.
> We don't mind go and work for J1 waiver but before that
> any possibility of getting conversion to GC.
No, the moment her status has changed to GME-J1 she has a 2 year home residency requirement, period. The only way to get the HRR waived is by working for a practice in an underserved location or for the veterans administration for 3 years.
Once the 3 years are over you, the GC holder would be able to sponsor her as your wife, with another 6 years of wait for that. (careful, the moment an immigrant petition has been filed on your wifes behalf, she can run into trouble getting a J1 non-immigrant visa)
Bottom line:
Your wife will be better off finding a residency sponsoring her for H1b. It costs more money and is a pain in the a__ in and by itself, but if you are already on the immigration track a J1 is a GIGANTIC STRATEGIC MISTAKE.
Look around here and on the USMLE.net forum to find hospitals that sponsor H1bs for residents. Some of them are pretty crummy programs, but given the external circumstances at play it might be necessary to accept a sub-par education in order to preserve your immigration options.