Velli...u'll be fine..
velli said:
thanks portugueselady
i am sure everything will be fine just don't seemtoo anxious since it can appear like something is wrong. My wife and I are currently living with her parents and my lawyer says that the most important is joint accts. and notices from both parents stating that it is a bone fide marriage. Now maybe that is because my wife and I are younger than some other applicants but IMO it all depends on how the IO feels about you when you sit in front of him. Everything is forgeable and therefor their gut feeling is probably the most important thing. So my advice even though I know how hard it is, just try to be yourself relax and don't worry. The worst thing that can happen is that he won't approve it but if you guys got married because you wanted to then you will get it eventually.
But i am sure that you'll be fine.....since I am hoping the same for me!!
Velli,
Response by P'Lady is an apt one. There seems to be a practice within USCIS that they no longer stamp people's passport as cards are mailed out relative quick. So, it also depends on the officer conducting the interview.
On your upcoming interview, just relax and be prepared to answer all questions being posed at you. You mentioned that you were young, curious to learn how old are you?
You can PM me on that one.
My advise is simple: Take all your evidence, joint-stew if you might call it
Lease, insurace-car, home, health and life, phone and cellphone bills, utility bills if they are in your name (if under parent's-they can write a note attesting to you guys paying some fractions, only if you pay), any mail addressed to you and her with the same address, bank, credit and dept store cards with both of your names on, wedding pictures, vacation pictures if you have vacationed together recently or in the past (before marriage is powerful evidence too), emails, love notes and cards before and after your marriage, home pictures taken during your candle light dinners @home
(if u spice things some times), thanksgiving or Xmas pictures with family or friends or just the two of you. Remember those Xmas gifts you bought each other for Xmas? A question could be asked as who bought who, what for Xmas.
The letter from both parents will be helpful, and if you are member of any religious group, a letter from someone in position of authority in your church, mosque or synagogue could be helpful too, because of the respect placed on such letters.
Lastly, dress spiffy for interview like a married couple with a purpose in life, plus your attorney will be there to ensure no USCIS officer abuses his temporary power on you, you should be in good shape. Don't be nervous, this could spell unnecessary hardship for you and your spouse. Be confidant
Lastly, forgery as a word should be left at the entrance of USCIS, because if you mentioned that things could be forged inadvertently to the officer, you might be a toast by end of Jan 30th....