Hi Pianoplayer,
Yes, I realise that there should not have been that many questions by the interviewer about my H1B. But she was the director of the local office and she was substituting for another officer to take our interview because the officer called in sick. I thought, she just wanted to prove to me that she had the power of making my life happy or miserable! Also, she did keep asking me why my family was not at the wedding. I had to tell her, all my family is overseas, and they cannot afford to fly over to States. So, we just had to do a ceremony with my in-laws and then eventually, both my husband and I will travel to see my family.
She seemed very prejudiced(thats just my opinion), as she even asked my husband" You are from this state, what made you marry someone from outside?" My husband jokingly replied, "because I could not find someone good enough to get married in this state and I have lived here almost my whole life" and then he added"he loved me". My husband did remark after the interview was over that he did not think that question was proper.
I was getting upset when she kept making such remarks but I never said anything, as I just wanted the interview to be done and over with and get on with my life.