Got profiled for Fraud marriage

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enchanted

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Have interviewed today an I thought that he(the interviewer) profiled us as fraud marriage.

It was cold on his room and I am nervous because i know something like this will happen.
Everyone knows me that I am always shy and nervous can't help it.
Then he grumpily pushed my passport said It got expired.
Took our id and make copies, and rescheduled.
I ask why and he says we just got rescheduled.

I got bummed because when my interview letter came in last year I was happy because one less things to do, and to think about.

My husband is going through tough times and I can't get any job, and bills kept coming and can't get any credit card, and now have the possibility to get deported.

God kill me if I'm in a fraud marriage.

He even ask us to raise our hand and tell the truth and we did.

he asks us all of our weaknesses and there he got all of his opinions of fraud marriage.

I hated myself because I just carried several items I thought would be ok, and didn't bring the whole bunches of things in my other folder, so I left our marriage photos, but those photos don't even have any other people in them just us standing in front of a well on our wedding.
and should have also brought my husband's letter on the navy, that is very private. :| as if we really want to let anybody know/read about our "private life".

to anyone who would judge this post as 'fraud marriage' I would like you to come down here where we live and judge us, if this is really fraud marriage, and you will see, and F you if you did, you can kiss our b:mad:tt when you get done profiling us as fraud marriage.
 
There are few outcomes that could have happened at your interview.

1. You could have been approved and a GC could have been on its way to you in the next few weeks or
2. You could have been approved pending Namecheck, which could take anywhere from 30 days to several years to clear or
3. The IO could have given you an indication of his intent to deny your application, the first step in removal proceedings or
4. You could have been given a second chance in the form of a Stokes interview to prove your case.

In your case #4 happened to you. You could look at your situation as the cup being half full or half empty depending on how you view setbacks in life.

If I were you I would see this as a second chance and do my darnest to prove that this is a bona fide marriage. You are not the first to have a second interview and certainly will not be the last.

You have been given time, use it well.

Go over your interview, try and see where you could have been more convincing either by more evidence or by your attitude at the interview and take this opportunity to address them. There are interview guidelines and suggestions available to you on this forum and elsewhere to help you make your case stronger.

A second interview does not necessarily mean that you will be denied.

Good Luck.
 
Also, it sounds like you had a few things missing that were required/desired to be present at the interview that you didn't bring - that's not good. And you are upset and misdirecting your anger... and you weren't "profiled" from what it sounds in your post. It sounds like you need to bring more evidence/proof to the interview next time. Be prepared this time and think of it as a 2nd chance at happiness. Good luck.
 
And sadly yes, does not matter how "private" that letter could be...it's a good evidence. Do you know that there are people that have been asked even what was the underwear that their spouses used before the interview or when was the last time they have s*x?

I know is very disapointing...and probably you feel it more because you haven't been able to find a job. But the look for a job would be regardless of the interview. Sometimes you must start in a job that you won't like too much but at least you will be able to pay the bills.

Why you did not bring all the evidence? Does not matter if it's only you and your spouse on pictures you could explain where and when they were taken. Remember, this is your opportunity to convince them that you enter that marriage in good faith not to avoid the immigration laws. Regardless of how many of us go to your home, the truth is that is them not us that you must explain your actions...as private as they are or look, but that's the way it is.

Good luck,
 
enchanted said:
Have interviewed today an I thought that he(the interviewer) profiled us as fraud marriage.

It was cold on his room and I am nervous because i know something like this will happen.
Everyone knows me that I am always shy and nervous can't help it.
Then he grumpily pushed my passport said It got expired.
Took our id and make copies, and rescheduled.
I ask why and he says we just got rescheduled.

I got bummed because when my interview letter came in last year I was happy because one less things to do, and to think about.

My husband is going through tough times and I can't get any job, and bills kept coming and can't get any credit card, and now have the possibility to get deported.

God kill me if I'm in a fraud marriage.

He even ask us to raise our hand and tell the truth and we did.

he asks us all of our weaknesses and there he got all of his opinions of fraud marriage.

I hated myself because I just carried several items I thought would be ok, and didn't bring the whole bunches of things in my other folder, so I left our marriage photos, but those photos don't even have any other people in them just us standing in front of a well on our wedding.
and should have also brought my husband's letter on the navy, that is very private. :| as if we really want to let anybody know/read about our "private life".

to anyone who would judge this post as 'fraud marriage' I would like you to come down here where we live and judge us, if this is really fraud marriage, and you will see, and F you if you did, you can kiss our b:mad:tt when you get done profiling us as fraud marriage.
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Don't get so down on yourself. It happens. It happened to me and many of us. I was upset, annoyed and got over it quickly. You have enough time now, work on ALL THE DOCUMENTS and more documents. Bring em for the next interview. Preparation for interview is the key, be confident next time. you will pass. Good luck.
 
Sorry to hear about what happened. Just keep strong and try to better prepare for the next interview. This forum has many resources to assist you in preparation. Just ask or look around for info.
 
have been down and depressed for two days after interview.
even not thinking of finding a job, cuz what's the point if he thought that this is fraud and get sent home.
Everyone told me that I should stay focus and think of happy thoughts but lately also hubby and I got into arguments and I mean I'm the one who got mad because of old things or stuff that he does before And I just felt the whole f kng world is dawning on me.

It is normal to every newly wed couple to argue and fight a lot on their first year of marriage and so my husband and I argue quite a few but only last few minutes, and just small silly quarrels.
but lately I feel so tired and hopeless because I felt that he is somehow lying to me and then now I just don't feel like having another chance, just banned me whatever the hell you think I am, but not.

Just all bs, I feel so tired, idk, i live in this country and live my whole teenage life here, and I just feel so down that....


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everything works well despite of long wait for approval, the immigration approved us, all of the paperworks we gave them, and now for just one fking interview with one grumpy interviewer makes the whole world feels so mean.

I read about stokes interview and that there's possibility that my husband will get sent away to another room while i'm in different room.
I ask him what color he likes and he replied anything. :|
and he has a memory problem because of dyslexia. So I'm just ...
I feel like wow, this must be the end of it, might as well surrender...
Just so many stupid thoughts.
Anyhow, maybe I hope some day before the interview I shall be able to pass this big brambles of frontier that's in front of us.
I do not want me to get deported and so I do not want my husband to get into jail as well.

If he's the one who makes me deported if he denies it and profiled us, is there a way for me to get back like hire an attorney and sue him,
and not taken away that very moment?

I do not want us to get into jail, I haven't been in a jail before, and Always obeyed all the rules.

thanks for all kind words

and yeah it's funny how that's work one employee judge and potentially broke one's marriage and relationship,
how could you even sleep at night?
 
got our stokes interview today.
Interviewed for 30mins together and my husband got interviewed by himself for 30mins.
The guy is @$$ as usual the same guy who interviewed us the first time.
This time my husband told me what he have been asked and even told my husband to leave me so then he'll get out of trouble.
he's trying to lure him into getting out of our marriage. I mean WTF is that about! we're trying to get into our own feet and he's SCARING my husband that if he don't leave me he will go into jail. :eek:

such an @$$HOLE
 
well I thought I'm gonna get interviewed after my husband did but the interviewer didn't called me up, and we left. Told my husband that we will get a letter within 30 days that we need to follow, or a green card.
 
enchanted, perhaps the IO has used the tactic you described to get a confession of fraud if in fact fraud exists. However, don't project all your anger personally against the IO, he's just trying to do his job and doesn't make the law. If you got a chance to present all your evidence this time around, and if your husband gave natural answers to the threats, I think you should get approved. (However, to be fair and honest, I'll submit that probably anyone could be coerced into a forced wrongful confession if threatened enough!)
 
austriacus said:
enchanted, perhaps the IO has used the tactic you described to get a confession of fraud if in fact fraud exists. However, don't project all your anger personally against the IO, he's just trying to do his job and doesn't make the law. If you got a chance to present all your evidence this time around, and if your husband gave natural answers to the threats, I think you should get approved. (However, to be fair and honest, I'll submit that probably anyone could be coerced into a forced wrongful confession if threatened enough!)
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He is a rude officer and in my opinion and would not change it that he is AHOLe and that He don't deserve his job why?

because of many incriminating question he kept asking my husband
On our first interview he almost spit on my expired passport.
and ask for our wedding photos.
This time around he interviewed us in depth and swore again not to tell a lie. He didn't even care much about our supporting evidence that I gather up to show off to his face.
He told my husband that there is not enough emotion on our first interview.
My husband told the officer that because He is nervous and elaborate more.
Then The IO says to him, well this time SHE is making an emotion and Assume that my PARENTS TOLD ME TO LIE AND SHOW MORE EMOTION TO CONVINCE HIM(what a crackhead)
and told my husband that he could leave now and run away from me otherwise he will get into jail for 10years and would be fined $250,000
(way to break real relationship):mad:!!!!

I could prove we could prove that my husband is not getting any money out of my parents, nor from anyone.
My husband then tell him after he blab about a lot of incriminating BS to my husband that My husband Married me out of Love and we are not in any way, exchanging monetary toward this greencard..
and then told my husband that I am an Illegal alien and elaborate to him about that that...
THIS KIND OF PEOPLE married you for greencard....
blah blah blah....
and ask my husband
Why do YOU THINK SHe CHOSE YOU.
and of course my husband can't answer that because it's not applicable he didn't marry me for Greencard!
and so told the IO that HE married me because He love me, and we love each other, he was set off to another state and almost sent into another country that is why we decided to be with each other and get married.






I'm just posting this so someday if That DmbAs IO would get me deported because of his BS then you'd see this post and get yourself a lawyer before this happens to you.
 
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